Is it bad I'm in love with someone who's 17 and I'm 14?

Asked By: Thedarknessinme 13-15, F 6 months ago

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Posted by wetdog777 1 Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:19PM

YES YES YES !
You want different things in a relationship, and this is wrong.
At your age a boyfriend should be for hugging and an occasional kiss. He wants s3x, and a lot of it. Stop now, before things get really bad. When you are 17 and he is 20 you can reconsider the relationship.

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Reply by wetdog777 Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:40PM

I am 95% certain that I got a "like" from the original poster. I can't check now because it just says "and 2 others", but I am almost certain it was there. @thedarknessinme - What are your thoughts? Did you make any decisions?
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Reply by Thedarknessinme Nov 25th, 2012 at 2:39PM

I know it's bad ya and I'm not going to says he's different than other guys because I don't know. My mom knows about it she likes him people keep telling me he likes me but I don't think I'm going to act on I because someone told me he has a GF. It pissed me off because he and I whit to prom last year and homecoming this year so I'm confused I think I'm just going to breath and think things throw ill keep you posted and yes I liked your posed it gave me a lot to think of. -thedarknessinme
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11 Answers to "Is it bad I'm in love with someone who's 17 and I'm 14?"

Posted by ob1kenobe Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:26PM

If you need to keep it secret, it's bad. It gives him too much control.

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Posted by Shayisboss Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:17PM

No. But make sure that he loves you for the right reasons. I fell in love with an 18 y/o when I was 14 and a little after my 15th we hooked up. a few months ago, my sister found out and now i am currently grounded for the next year. Not because we did anything, not because he tried to do anything, but because of his age. Make sure that the people who mean more to you (your family and extremely close friends) are okay with it and that it will not risk your relationship with them. I almost lost my sister and she is the closest thing to my heart right now. Thankfully, she gave me a second chance and as much as it has killed me, it has been 3 months since I have seen him. I still love him, but as for being in love with him, thats a different question which I am not sure that I can answer. Idk if this answer helps or makes any sense, but it's my personal story about a relationship w/ a guy 3 1/2 years older than me.

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Posted by SpringlesAndStars Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:17PM

That's totally okay, just make sure that you're friends always know where you are if you ever go out with him/her.

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Posted by atadir Nov 23rd, 2012 at 7:26PM

it's only bad if he disrespects your parents

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Posted by Twinken Nov 23rd, 2012 at 6:06PM

I guess it's fine, Lucille Ball had a boyfriend who was, I think, 24 when she was 14! That's a 10 year age difference! But when she was a teenager, she was kinda bad........

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Posted by Bgmnts Nov 23rd, 2012 at 6:06PM

Little bambinos claiming they're in love. It's adorable.

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Posted by UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:49PM

No. Hun i had a few boyfriends when I was younger who were 2, 3 and 4 years older than me. Because I have a good head on my shoulders I kept in mind that guys, older and younger might only want one thing. You just have to be careful, if he loves you he will respect your feelings and your decisions, if he doesn't do that, then forget him. Don't compromise your virtue for anybody,but don't think that what you feel now isn't necessarily love. it could be, or it could be infatuation, I cannot say. You never know, so be careful.

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Posted by dirtydarkness Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:15PM

IDK if you're in love. You're in a deep like and it's common. Now if you said he was 27 then it would be bad.

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Posted by BluesKing Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:09PM

No, that's not a bad gap

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Posted by Dollyismyleader Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:08PM

shameful

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