if it were her he has been with for 9 years hed be thinking about you or someone else, thats just the way it is
Some guys like to say that women "over-think" things because they're dumb and "under-think" them. -smh-
Likely not, at least not completely. Humans have the tendency to remember negative things with higher intensity than positive things.<br />
The negative feelings should, however, become less intense over time as long as you focus on the positive aspects of that situation.<br />
The positive aspect of that situation was that your husband ultimately chose you. He chose you before her, and he chose you after her. Have confidence and take comfort in that fact.<br />
Perhaps communicate to him these feelings in a calm, non-confrontational manner, keeping your word choices from being accusatory. He may very well rise to the occasion if you express a need for extra support or extra ex<x>pressions of relationship security.
Nope. Welcome to the hell we "thinkers" were born in.
Eyup. Welcome to one of the many reasons NOT to ever get into a relationship.
.... I'd rather be alone
Who is this 16 yr old eper
Jealousy… Yucky. Who invented the notion that we should be jealous or monogamous or that we can't wander the earth in a state of bliss without upsetting people?