Is it fair to ask someone why they love you?

Asked By: michellel1978 31-35, F 2 years ago

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Posted by LovelessAdvocate Jul 23rd, 2010 at 11:27AM

yes of course. sometimes, people just come out and say that they love you... unexpectedly. and you wonder why, yes you do. is it your lucky day (maybe). but asking doesn't mean that you are curious, i guess... it's just that you wanna try to understand more from the person, that he sees you in a different angle from the rest of the human population. you may say, "why do you love me?" and if it's really love and not just some stupid crush or just wanna hook-up with you.... you'll feel every words with your heart.

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Posted by RRK1 Jul 21st, 2010 at 9:43PM

It's not really fair, but I think we are all guilty of asking it at some point in time. I think it's due to insecurities and wanting to know how someone can love you when you don't really love yourself.

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Posted by saverwaver Jul 21st, 2010 at 9:43PM

Sure I asked my last bf that.
Whether it's out of confusion or just because you want to hear adoring words from your mate,
it is justified.
Otherwise you are left in the dark forever, and isn't communication a good thing?

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Posted by mgtour Jul 21st, 2010 at 9:42PM

Just as long as you don't reask that Q 30 times a day?

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Posted by genglicious Jul 21st, 2010 at 10:35PM

its a big NO....NO>>>>>>>>>>>>>NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by ronaldjroach Jul 21st, 2010 at 7:58PM

Because you have great ****, and your a lot of fun to screw, so shut up and get back into bed.

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Posted by alicia87 Jul 21st, 2010 at 7:38PM

I do all the time... always fun to see what answer I'll get. :)

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Posted by northguy Jul 21st, 2010 at 7:38PM

Yes, I think it's fair to ask that question. If you are in relationship with someone who loves you, you have a right to be told why.

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Posted by theloved Jul 21st, 2010 at 7:29PM

Yes, I think it's fair. The whole point of the relationship is to share the deep things of your heart with another. My guy's favorite answer is " because you are mine " What's not fair is if you demand an answer and get all mean.

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Posted by LilAnnie Jul 21st, 2010 at 7:23PM

I think its very fair to ask your guy to do you with love talk. But some men are just really bad at it...you have to cut them some slack if they don't have the gift of tongue.....get your mind out of the gutter!.

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Posted by 1lbat0po56 Jul 21st, 2010 at 7:20PM

NO

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