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Is it hard for you to say the words I love you?

I learned one good thing from my father and that was how to say I love you when I feel it.
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Not as hard as it used to be. "Say it when you feel it" is a good rule. :-)
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 6:20AM
No, because I -always- mean it when I say it.
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 3:53AM
depends..to ur friends is not but to the person i like...it is hard enough that i wont tell him..he deserves much better
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 3:58AM
No, because I don't say it lightly.
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 4:02AM
Not if I mean it.
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 10:21PM
For me? Yes. I feel lame if I say it and don't mean it, so I only say if it means something.
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 10:27PM
Not at all. Because I only say it when I truly mean it!!!
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 10:32PM
Not if your in the right relationship. If you feel the love, it should be easy to say it.
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 10:36PM
I did not grow up in a household where those words were said that often. I really do not remember ever hearing those words from my parents until my parents moved 3000 miles away about 5 years ago. I never felt unloved by them, it's just those words were not spoken.

I always told my kids I loved them growing up and even now when they are full grown I tell them every time I speak to them and they tell me they love me.

I only say those words when I sincerely mean them, but I use them freely with those individuals I love.

I do think there are individuals who just use those words too often when they really do not mean them and they lose their value/
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 11:04PM
It used to be.
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 11:30PM
i think its not hard to say some one i love you. but its very hard to prove it .. and it takes few second to say some one i love you but it needs whole life to prove them...


Regards
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 11:54PM
yea its great,
ur father is realy a great man.
in case he wants to help you .
so you must to accept it .
am i wrong?
i think it's a possitive site for you .
bye.
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 12:43AM
for me, if i know how I feel for the person I have no problem saying it, but if I just dont feel that way for the person well its like trying to walk through a brick wall I just can't
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 5:08AM
Yeah, it's hard for me, I can write the words, and text the words, type the words and paint the words, and mean it, but I'm afraid to say them and I don't know why.
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 5:32AM
Yes. My mother has never said I love you to me or my brother or sisters. My dad told me he loved me a couple of times. I find it hard for me to say I love you to my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years. Strange right? He says it a lot and i just smile at him, he doesnt ever ask why i dont say it back. I just like to say it when i feel it
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 10:44AM
I have only said them to my Grandpa, a few days before he died. I think yes, I find it hard to say those three words.
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Posted Apr 22nd, 2009 at 1:58AM
Its very hard for me to say 'I love you'. Even when I mean it. I'm afraid that the other person might not feel the same way, or they expect it. I fear saying it becuase to me saying 'I love you' means that you trust the other person. I dont trust anyone really, I'm scared to trust people in case I get hurt. I want to learn to trust. Then I will say "I love you'
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