No. Our decisions can be made together. If we don't at first agree, we usually end up with a better solution as a result of our commitment to each other's wants. We prefer two people at their best, not one pandering to the other's ego.
We share our skirts.
We're partners, we make big decisions together. There's things he leaves to me and things I leave to him (like his fcking car he keeps going on about :-/ ) but we work things out together,
there's only one top ***** in my house...easy no male.
we both wear briefs, even am the submissive one, we tried to complete each other :) * we still try
I was raised by parents who were clearly equals and worked things out together. That's what I've always seen as normal, and when I married that's what I looked for.
I wouldn't say important, but I technically wear the pants, but the one in the skirt is usually the dominant one. I actually find that best for me because if it is equal or the opposite I quickly get bored with the other person.