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Is it normal for a 23 year old female (Not bad looking) to have to beg their love to pleasure them?

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  1. JoeEDangerously - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by JoeEDangerously Sep 28th, 2012 at 11:22AM

    He could be depressed or have anxiety or some other kind of medical problem. I'm amazed how quick everyone is to throw this guy under the bus and call him an idiot and all that. Man, ask him. Jesus. Why are you posting questions here? Ball up and talk to the man, Christ. If there's a problem talk it out. Maybe he's cheating. I don't know. Maybe he's harboring some dark secret. I don't know how likely either of those are but the point is it could be anything and you need to find out. If he's not paying attention to you in other ways that might be a factor too. The point is it could be benign like low testosterone (many men have it) or it could be something like a mistress. It could be anything. Just talk to the man. Seriously.

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  2. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 11:27AM

    Joe, I talk to him daily about this and your right, I believe it is a medical issue, I am just seeking answers and not taking everyones adivce, I know him and how he is so that doesnt mean he is terrible, and yes its sad that everyone throws him under the bus, plus Claire is not my real name and he has no clue about this and there are no names being called here. Sorry you were offended.

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  3. WizGeezer - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by WizGeezer Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:01AM

    No ... kick him to the curb ... you can do better.

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  4. l3b25 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by l3b25 Sep 28th, 2012 at 8:59AM

    nope god damn it !!

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  5. youneeda - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by youneeda Sep 28th, 2012 at 4:49PM

    The short answer is, NO, it's not normal. ( sorry Claire...)

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  6. laurapetrie - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by laurapetrie Sep 28th, 2012 at 10:05AM

    Find someone your own age to play with .....

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  7. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 10:07AM

    Have you seen most of the boys my age?

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  8. youneeda - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by youneeda Sep 28th, 2012 at 4:41PM

    I'm your 'friend', but I still think that answer is a cop-out!

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  9. TonyCE - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by TonyCE Sep 28th, 2012 at 10:04AM

    How does a guy get so lucky to find a woman so young and not doall he can to keep her? IDIOT

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  10. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:12AM

    Me too, I am in shock about this!

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  11. TonyCE - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by TonyCE Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:14AM

    wish I could help!!!

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  12. philjay - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by philjay Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:04AM

    totally not normal and totally unacceptable. actually, in my mind, totally unbelieveable

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  13. philjay - 61-65 years old - male

    Reply by philjay Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:05AM

    and she says that she is not bad-looking? I can attest to the fact that she is gorgeous.

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  14. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:09AM

    Thank you for that! Now maybe the others will believe me that I am attractive!

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  15. NorthernMan1966 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by NorthernMan1966 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:03AM

    If you must beg, this person is not right for you

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  16. bgirl1116 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by bgirl1116 Sep 29th, 2012 at 3:40AM

    Been there. Done that. He's cheating or he's hiding a severe ED problem!

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  17. bepuzzled - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by bepuzzled Sep 28th, 2012 at 6:35PM

    BEG? no one should have to do that! Try this,..., grab him by the boyz and get his attention, thro him on the bed and pull his under roos to his knees and hold your breath-the talc will take your breath. Then light his lil'boy up! Really! and if you are not sure, well maybe he just likes being dominated-ask his mommy first for his permission slip.

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  18. beertap - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by beertap Sep 28th, 2012 at 10:24AM

    GAY

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  19. The1960texan - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by The1960texan Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:34AM

    Whaaaaat?

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  20. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:43AM

    You read it right!

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  21. LucilleLucilleLucille - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by LucilleLucilleLucille Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:29AM

    No.

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  22. sathish10 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by sathish10 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:13AM

    first of all dont think that you are ugly or bad looking

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  23. Frankinweenie - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Frankinweenie Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:10AM

    If your begging. He's banging some other girl.

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  24. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:14AM

    I know he is not, even though I want to think that. I am with him all the time and know who he is with at all times. It could be possible but i dont think so.

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  25. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by DozerDan Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:01AM

    Yes, its getting to be more and more common. An average female today just doesn't inspire men.

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  26. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:08AM

    Thats terrible! I try everything to get him to please me, from flat out telling him what I want to even try forcing him lol. Its so sad

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  27. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Reply by DozerDan Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:12AM

    I notice your question, a reflection of how you think, asks about him giving you pleasure. You did not ask about how you can give him pleasure. That wasn't your question or your thinking. That attitude has a lot to do with the answer to your question.

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  28. ToniFrench - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by ToniFrench Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:01AM

    Perhaps he has mental block. That sometimes happens when a man has something else going on in his mind.

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  29. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:08AM

    I just want his touch, its not that hard to do!

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  30. misseymoo - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by misseymoo Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:20AM

    know exactly how you feel

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  31. unlimited - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by unlimited Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:00AM

    No, is he selfish and just wants to get off himself? Or does he have other intimacy issues? Or maybe you don't turn him on.

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  32. Claire56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Claire56 Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:07AM

    I feel like I dont turn him on honeslty, but im a hot 23 year old and he is 43, I should turn him on!

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  33. unlimited - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by unlimited Sep 28th, 2012 at 9:10AM

    Ah ok, so is he addicted to ****? Could be an age thing. Is he a heavy drinker? Drug user (pharmacy or other)? Maybe he has fantasies that you are not aware of...

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