I broke up with my last girlfriend because if I didn't have anything to say or I didn't text her every day "it must mean you don't love me anymore!" Too much drama, too needy and clingy...<br />
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Don't worry about it so much, some of us just don't use phones that much!

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From the sounds of it I don't think you guys are a very good match. It sounds dumb I know, but one person that is uber social and into texting, and one that shuns technology is going to cause problems. And it doesn't sound like you are really cool with his choice to be tech free... <br />
He probably won't change. He isn't going to be the kind of guy to keep constant communication. <br />
The issue here is not just the phone, but the fact that you and your boyfriend have different relationship styles. You need to get together and talk about contact expectations, and what level of contact you both desire in a relationship. When you have good communication with him, you won't find yourself worrying about little things like this anymore. <br />
...and believe me, you are not the only person who wonders if a guy is being weird because he doesn't text you. We all get insecure sometimes :)

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we've talked about this actually and so far im trying to adjust on this kind of setting. in a way, he does respond every time i text so i think that is enough for me. we're still on the stage of getting to know... and i hope we cope up on that. thanks ^^

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I know my bf loves me and we live together and even now he is not good at responding to texts because he is just not a phone guy.

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As I see, he gave you the heads up for a reason.<br />
He already told you he is not a "phone/text person", so why do you expect him to be one?

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It's good, text addiction has little to do with love.

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No dont be so ******* dramatic. Its not a big deal at all.

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thank you

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I think it's absolutely ok!

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different ppl diffrnt way of loving , living life .. may be he is more practical than txtn phoning.. its normal frnd ... no worries .... :)

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thanks for that.. i'm glad to hear points of view from different people around here... :)

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For a 'slightly' over rated boy friend,that's normal.

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is he texting when your together? if not then i see no problem :)<br />
but if its me im totally gonna reply to my lover as much as possible. i dont want her to feel alone and disappointed.

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in fairness to him, he does reply when i text. when we are together, his phones are not with him.

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pretty fair to me.

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Not at all.. !!!

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