Is it normal that I've never had a crush or really been attracted to anyone?

Asked By: xXStitchedxPoetXx 18-21, F 12 months ago

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Posted by BarvoDelancy 1 Jun 23rd, 2012 at 12:32AM

Don't stress about 'normal' or abnormal because it has no real meaning. We're all unique and have different sex drives - we just get taught that "everyone but you" acts a certain way.

You may have a tendency towards asexuality or just don't crush like other people. It can also be a symptom of depression. I don't know the details of your situation, but play it by ear. If you are unhappy talking to a councillor may help - just to give your concerns some context.

But normalcy is just a made up concept. Focus on what makes you comfortable and happy.

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8 Answers to "Is it normal that I've never had a crush or really been attracted to anyone?"

Posted by reubles Jun 23rd, 2012 at 12:32AM

Asexuality is not abnormal but not many people understand it.

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Posted by aquarius3 Jun 23rd, 2012 at 1:33AM

What's normal? I'm 62 I don't have a crush on anyone! Not sure If I'm attracted to anyone but I do like the looks of Women!

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Posted by UpInThatTree Jun 23rd, 2012 at 12:28AM

I was never really attracted to anyone until I met my fiance

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Posted by charmcaster6177 Jun 23rd, 2012 at 12:27AM

normal ? it is good
better actually

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Posted by 5thApprentice Jun 23rd, 2012 at 12:26AM

Nothing wrong with that.

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Posted by ceywat Jun 23rd, 2012 at 12:24AM

Oh it's waaaay above "normal," you're one of the smart ones! : )

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Posted by gl0winthedark Jun 23rd, 2012 at 12:23AM

If you are over the age of 15, then 'no'. that's really weird.

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Reply by xXStitchedxPoetXx Jun 23rd, 2012 at 12:28AM

Why? I'm 18 and never have.
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