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Is it ok for a 23 yr old woman to be dating a divorced 39 yr old with 2 daughters of 16 & 12?

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Sure its fine, but his kids will never respect you.

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Other 13 Answers to Is it ok for a 23 yr old woman to be dating a divorced 39 yr old with 2 daughters of 16 & 12?

Moran1988	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 6:34PM Technically it is ok, but why would any 23 year old want to do that? The REALITY is that it gets more complicated when there are kids. Also, in generally any 23 yr old woman is at her peak of youth, beauty, health, AND (very importantly) she has a large variety of men to choose. Why chose Mr.Difficult? Believe me girl, in 6 years there will be less to choose from, and in 10 you are in different category (more people your age will busy with someone else). Use your time wisely because it goes by faster than you realize. Rated: +4Vote for this!
Creamsicle	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 5:26PM Everybody is different... if you are comfortable with it, then it's fine. If it were me, I'd not be OK with it for myself, considering at 23 years old you are only 7 years older than his one daughter. Yuck- even though you're an adult, it's kinda like he's a *********! Rated: +2Vote for this!
heavyduty1	Posted May 2nd, 2009 at 9:42AM What do those numbers add up to? Rated: +1Vote for this!
ralli10001	Posted May 2nd, 2009 at 6:13PM It is perfectly ok if you are ok with it. However, the fact that you have to ask if it is ok means that you have apprehensions about it. If you have to agonize about the appropriateness of the relationship, it may not the right thing for you. Rated: +1Vote for this!
void00	Posted May 2nd, 2009 at 3:29AM Legally it's fine. In practical terms I think the kids would be freaked out at having a stepmom who's young enough to be their big sister. Rated: +1Vote for this!
MERCIPOURLEVENIN	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 4:42PM its perfectly fine as long as you like him & he's good to you Rated: +1Vote for this!
pntdhorse61	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 4:40PM YES WAIT LET ME THINK YES Rated: +1Vote for this!
cubs09	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 5:24PM do you like him? if you do than it doesn't matter what his age is. age is just a number? Rated: +1Vote for this!
solarxmoon	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 5:43PM I wouldn't do it. That would creep me out, being barely older than his kids. And how do you think his daughters would feel, having their dad date someone so close to their age? I'm always suspicious of older men who are interested in me that way- but I understand that I'm very biased about that, so if you're both ok with it, maybe it's not so bad.. Rated: +1Vote for this!
geenpunchbuggie	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 6:18PM it's not morally objectionable but i think that you are doing yourself a grave injustice by wasting your youth with someone who has so much baggage. Rated: +1Vote for this!
KnightBlade	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 6:37PM If it's right for you then go for it. The only thing I would caution is do you want to be tied into a relationship like this and to really really think about what you are getting into. Do you want all the responsibilities of a house, kids, etc. or would you rather find those things out on your own first? I'm not saying it's bad to get involved - there are plenty of people separated by age differences similar to what you are looking at. Age is only a number so don't let that bother you. The right question here is, is he the right person for you? Rated: +1Vote for this!
francisscott	Posted May 1st, 2009 at 8:44PM There is absolutely nothing wrong with it... The question that you have to ask is why you are even questioning the relationship. If he and his kids treat you with kindness and respect you should be happy. You can certainly go out and find another guy that may be younger and does not have kids but if he does not treat you as well would that be better? Examine and judge your own wants and needs and frankly who gives a s#it what anyone else thinks as long as you are being treated well and are happy. If he is not treating you well then kick him to the curb. You deserve better... Rated: +1Vote for this!
kaleyy	Posted May 2nd, 2009 at 12:16AM if you care about him and loved him, age, kids, or anything shouldnt matter. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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