Is it ok for a married woman to be secretly seeking out "old friends" on Facebook, mostly guys?
Then states she has no idea who they are, but when the proof is there, reverts to the excuse that they are "old" friends? I've heard this term before "old" friends, its usually never good. What do you think?
8 Answers to "Is it ok for a married woman to be secretly seeking out "old friends" on Facebook, mostly guys?"
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This is my thoughts about it: People only hide things when there is something worthwhile to hide. In other words, they hide things that they are ashamed of and they know that they should not be doing.
If it is completely harmless like your wife first stated, then she would have just told you. For the record, I have been in a similar situation with my husband. I do not blame you one bit for being upset. The whole experience is very hurtful and unnerving. I am sorry that you have to go through such a thing. Good luck!Like (1)
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i think its normal.if its just friends,but ex lovers! Hell no
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That's how much I know about this woman, so I don't know what type of relationships they've had in the past. Even when we were together, never were any of these guys ever mentioned as being 'friends'. So it makes it that much worse for me.
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No, that is totally disrespectful of her husband and should be dealt with immediately...
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Yes. If she isn't cheating or being inappropriate with them.
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Ahh, but this is the question. Since she's been lying to me from the get go with all of this, it does make one wonder what is really going on? If she has nothing to hide then why all the secretive behavior?
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It depends on her husband's efficiency...If He is efficient she doesn't think of others.
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Possibly, but doesn't give me the right to seek out other woman just because I may think my wife is non-sufficient for me does it? There is never an excuse for that in my opinion.
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Sorry...I didn't thought of insulting any one through my answer. Here for this problem there are two solutions: If the Husband wants not to loose her at any cost then some soft and sensitive steps may be taken which require a patience of one or two highly strategic months at least. On the other hand there are many quick decisions. But sometimes if any one is directly asked the things will be beyond one's control after sometime.
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Perhaps she was worried of your reaction.
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No doubt, but that is still no reason to EVER hide something like that. What good can come from hiding, even after the fact she was confronted about it? Keeping her cell phone close, closing down Facebook afterwards, changing password to our phone carrier to try and stop me from seeing the call logs. C'mon!
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I have a problem with your question simply because you chose to put it in a manner that glorifies married women as if they arent humans just like the rest of us... or rather the so called married men who justifies their reasons over and over again for secretly seeking out friends and acting on that friendships. Is it really wrong for married women to seek friends whether online or not?
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I think you just took it like that, I think your smart enough to figure out what it is I'm asking, SHEESH!
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Then with a husband like you we all know why she's looking for friends on the net hey
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by BamPow Jul 29th, 2012 at 1:14PM
I guess it depends on what she is seeking from them.
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Reply by idolno1 Jul 29th, 2012 at 1:23PM
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