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Is it ok for your 19yr old daughter to spend the night at her boyfriends when she is living at home with her parents?
mdechelleb mdechelleb 41-45, F 22 Answers Jul 31, 2012

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Whats the difference whether she lives at home or not? Is this a power trip thing...I am King and this is my castle and you obey me? What happens when you become old and decrepid like my Grandparents did and have to move in with one of your children, are they allowed to tell you that you can't go play bingo?

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Can you actually stop her? She is not a child, she is a young woman.

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She's 19. Not 15. You don't own her. She's old enough to make her own decisions.

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I want to say yes, even though i'm only 15. She's an adult now an can make her own choices if she wants to bring u grandkids then she'll make that choice, if not then thats good :) whatever makes her happy, and u should trust her, cause she most likely trusts and respects you! (just thought i'd give u my opinion)

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I say no, but that is 100% your call, if she plays the "i am an adult" card tell her to get her own place and pay her own rent and bills, being adult is a good with the bad situation

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That's what I did. Under my roof, you live by my rules. You want to make your own rules, get your own roof to live under.

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This is new territory, but yeh, my rules or don't let the door knob hit you... I just wanted to see what the deal was with other parents. It seems I am the only parent with rules for their "grown" kids in her circle. Oh well.

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In my case, I made the rule that they could not sleep with the boyfriend under my roof, but in fact, unless you get a chaperone and a chastity belt, she will sleep with him, even if she has to lie to you to to do it. Now it becomes a matter of choice on your part. Would you rather have her tell you what she is doing with her life, or lie to you?

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Yeah but with plenty of condoms.

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Yes it's okay because she is an adult... You cant stop her

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Yeah, she's 19. By law she's an adult. She's growing up now, you have to trust her.

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Yeah, shes her own person now, she can make her own choices. In my opinion anyway

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This must be very tough for u. The answer Is I don't know. Sorry.

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No, it isn't. If something happens guess who is going to have to deal with it? She is in your home, she lives by your rules.

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Yes, saying no will only push her to rebel against the parent's rules

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I know it could be hard but shes an adult now, just lecture her maybe one day she'll listen :)

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No. If she lives on her own and takes care of herself then that is her business but if she lives at home then no it is not.

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Hell no.

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Yes.

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