Is it ok to introduse a swingers lifestyle on the first date?

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Yes. In fact i suggest you turn up with another woman or two just to break the ice.

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Haphazard	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 4:30PM Isn't the first date at a swingers club? Rated: +2Vote for this!
lonelygirl92	Posted Aug 18th, 2009 at 12:27PM hell yes first of all if that's what you want and they don't why waste your time or theirs. Unless of course they take you somewhere really good to eat then wait until after dinner. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Cosreal	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 12:14AM why not. If she's/he's not cool with it then chances are she/he wasn't going to be. Rated: +1Vote for this!
naughtypuppy	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 12:16AM Honestly, I think so. If they aren't into that kind of stuff, and you are, why waste your time, and theirs? If they aren't into it on the first date, they won't be into it on the second date either. Honesty is the best policy, even if people get all mad about it. If they don't like what you have to say, it's their problem. Rated: +1Vote for this!
avalonleppard	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 12:16AM Probably not! Maybe you should see if she would sleep with you never mind 2 others! Rated: +1Vote for this!
MsTury2me	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 12:20AM Highly encouraged. This way she'll know better than to go out with you again if you're not a match. Rated: +1Vote for this!
2Emotional	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 12:18AM Not sure about this one. I would probably say no, you might freak the person out. On the other hand they might be into it. Rated: +1Vote for this!
TrgdyAnn	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 12:23AM Only if you don't want a second date! Rated: +1Vote for this!
kevinmcc	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 12:31AM Depends on the date , but some would run as first date is a get to know me session, so if you want your date to be the last with that person yes mention swinger lifestyle. Rated: +1Vote for this!
jerrica	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 8:04AM i don't think that's something that should be sprung on a first date. Rated: +1Vote for this!
JulySunSoul	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 9:01AM i think if your into that sort of thing you would have to mention it sooner rather than later. but i think (unless your date is also into that thing) a first date wouldnt be a good time to bring it up. Rated: +1Vote for this!
mzdivine	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 4:06PM NO!....of course not!,......G R O W U P !! Rated: +1Vote for this!

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