Is it ok to propose a friend? Will I lose my friendship if she declines my proposal?
11 Answers to "Is it ok to propose a friend? Will I lose my friendship if she declines my proposal?"
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Propose? Have you ever been given a reason to think he/she loves you? If not I wouldnt propose. Simply because you have feelings he or she may not and think you nuts to propose out of the blue. You may be hurt if he/she declines. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
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Exactly what I was thinking.Like (1)
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You're just going to propose to your friend, out of the blue, without even having dated her? Eesh.
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YuP! I know her since 2007, and we use to work together until 2011
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Yes and maybe but what the hell?
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Be careful. Watch this youtube video first. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXUphyeOjko
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That definitely sounds like risky business. Maybe take it slow and ask your friend out on a date? I hope all works out for ya.
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Once you admit to the sexual tension, the friendship is gone.
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I had an awesome friendship with sexual tension. Once we acknowledged it, the friendship was still awesome.Like (1)
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You won the lottery. Don't lose the ticket.
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That's a tough one, pal. You will really have to weigh your heart and options...
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Yes it is okay. If the friendship is really good, you probably will not lose it. (But don't act too upset if she declines, in that case emphasize how happy you are with your friendship, and you want to stay friends.)
You are the only person on this thread who knows your friend, and who knows your friendship, so only you can really answer your own question.
But yes, it is okay.
P.S. to cpgnatly, I had an awesome friendship with sexual tension. Once we acknowledged it, the friendship was still awesome.
P.S. Isn't it better to find out what will happen, than to spend the rest of your life wondering what could have happened if you had asked her?
Believe me, if it is a good friendship, you will not lose it. Not because of this. Not unless YOU are too heartbroken to remain friends.Like (1)
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Just what are you proposing?
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Um...why do you want to do this if you aren't even dating? I don't think I quite understand what's going on here.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by inthebelljar Nov 14th, 2012 at 6:40PM
propose..? maybe a date or two or a few years worth before the proposal...
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