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Is it ok to search for love if your in a loveless,abusive(verbal) marriage? In which the husband says he needs space!? !

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Asked By: doigivup66 41-45, F  2 months ago

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    ianlarc - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by ianlarc Mar 22nd, 2013 at 1:52PM

    Leave the marriage first and then its okay

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  1. doigivup66 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by doigivup66 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:17PM

    I wish it was that easy but I understand what your saying thank you

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  2. ianlarc - male

    Reply by ianlarc Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:19PM

    It is that easy and hopefully this time you dont choose to settle for an *******

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9 Answers to "Is it ok to search for love if your in a loveless,abusive(verbal) marriage? In which the husband says he needs space!? !"

  1. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by bijouxbroussard Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:36PM

    If you're considering looking for someone else and your husband needs "space", why not just divorce ? That will both give him space and free you to search for love without having to sneak around or bring a third party into a messy situation.

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  2. ptrsoos - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by ptrsoos Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:32PM

    leave

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  3. tito2003 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by tito2003 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 1:56PM

    i think in life people should be selfish and always think about themselves first .
    so do what ever you feel will make you happy ;)

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  4. doigivup66 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by doigivup66 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:07PM

    Thats his problem now hes very selfish and everything is about him and Im just here for the"wifely" duties.His famous saying "you will get over it just go with the flow and all will be great!" Really?where does that leave me sick of it!!

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  5. tito2003 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by tito2003 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:08PM

    then just do what makes you happy and enjoy

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  6. Lacerda - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Lacerda Mar 22nd, 2013 at 1:54PM

    Of course it is.
    Just be careful, especially if you plan on meeting someone you only know from online

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  7. doigivup66 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by doigivup66 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:07PM

    Agreed!! Thank you

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  8. scotvt - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by scotvt Mar 22nd, 2013 at 1:53PM

    It is OK to leave a marriage like that...and then find love *S* But no one has a right to judge what choices you make about this

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  9. doigivup66 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by doigivup66 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:09PM

    Very true,thanks for the input

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  10. Caatcat - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Caatcat Mar 22nd, 2013 at 1:53PM

    I think that is a normal thing to do, especially for women.

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  11. doigivup66 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by doigivup66 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:11PM

    Thats not fair I know many men who have done the same and thought nothing of it,I think both men n women are guilty equally in this area

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  12. Sisterkaramazov - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Sisterkaramazov Mar 22nd, 2013 at 1:52PM

    Do what you gotta do. You only live once .Misery is optional.

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  13. doigivup66 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by doigivup66 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:13PM

    True I just want to be loved n happy and he refuses to do it "says he dont know how"ha seen a different side of him w other people so I know he can,Thanks for your answear

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  14. biguglyswampmonster - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by biguglyswampmonster Mar 22nd, 2013 at 1:52PM

    theys actually a website for people that are wanting to have an affair.. ant remember thename of it but ive seen it advertised on webpages.

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  15. doigivup66 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by doigivup66 Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:16PM

    Thanks didnt know that but I am not really just looking for affairs but the love n commentment as well

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  16. biguglyswampmonster - male

    Reply by biguglyswampmonster Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:17PM

    match.com

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