really depends. if this is a first date but you've known each other for a long time, then sure it's fine. but if it's someone you're just getting to know, you might want to hold back on getting physical.
hm. I would say to hold off on it just a bit longer. The first date is usually like testing whether or not you would like to continue dating the person. if you really like this guy, continue to go on dates with him and led it flow from there. but make sure you feel comfortable with who he is first.
unfortunately, there's no way to really know. people are complex creatures so to say he's after one or the other is a bit undermining his many features. if you're uncomfortable with it, you can just tell him that and explain why (i.e. "we're moving too fast"). if he's respectful of your feelings, he won't push it.
very true, but maybe you shouldn't worry about what he is after. Know what you want and go for it- and if he doesn't seem to want the same, then you know to forget about him and just keep yourself moving. No shame in that.
you left him?
ooh. sorry to hear about that. But I'm glad you figured it out and left him. :)
he hasn't spoken to you since? or is he just acting differently?
ah, they really are strange creatures.
thats not wise actually
Yes course it is if the date goes well