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Is it okay to be picky when it comes to women?

I know I'm capable of dating a smart, beautiful, and funny woman because I have in the past, but I've had such a hard time as of late meeting one, and when I do I feel like I'm inadvertently doing things to make them lose interest. I have had girls just abruptly stop talking to me only to contact me a couple months later, which is weird, but hey, whatever. I hate feeling like certain girls are "out of my league", but I'm starting to feel that way, and that I'm going to have to settle for whoever would take me. The only issue is that I'm a bit particular about what kind of woman I want, because despite the fact I'm not wealthy or look like a GQ model, I still feel like I have more to offer than most people, and frankly dating has really been the only thing in my life I've struggled with. That and I'm not very good at sports.

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    SelangorNight - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by SelangorNight Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:46PM

    Okay? Its friggin essential!

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  1. SupermanDC - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by SupermanDC Nov 30th, 2012 at 11:17PM

    sometimes its true for the ladies to be picky ... works both ways ... good luck on the hunting ... that's is the thrill of it.

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  2. ssj29 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by ssj29 Nov 30th, 2012 at 11:31PM

    yup. i like a challenge.

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  3. SoulSeeker67 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by SoulSeeker67 Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:59PM

    Least see........ name six things you are be picky about and we will see if they realistic or not.

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  4. ssj29 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by ssj29 Nov 30th, 2012 at 11:03PM

    I don't think I can name six. I'm bad when it comes to how a girl looks, though. Oh, if she's crazy, that's a problem too (a little is ok, I'm talking about the bunny boiler)

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  5. SoulSeeker67 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by SoulSeeker67 Nov 30th, 2012 at 11:04PM

    Those are normal things...... no biggie

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  6. hhansen - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by hhansen Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:52PM

    It is okay to be picky about....everything. You are co-creating your life...make it what you want. Your partner and your purpose will find you. Don't lose faith in yourself and your reason for being here. It will happen. Namaste

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  7. Unyil - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Unyil Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:50PM

    Get rich and you could pick any women you like!!!

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  8. ssj29 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by ssj29 Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:52PM

    i'm a musician that ain't happening haha

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  9. Unyil - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by Unyil Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:55PM

    Being pessimist won't make you go anywhere, Bill Gates a college drop out and look who is he today?

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  10. Blogger422 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Blogger422 Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:49PM

    Yes. As long as you are willing to wait a long time (possibly never) before you find someone ideal. Also, you should be prepared to be lonely a long time.

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  11. ssj29 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by ssj29 Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:53PM

    my problem is that when i find someone i think is ideal, it's only a matter of time before they realize they can do better than me and then they stop answering my phone calls and act like i'm a nuisance when I try to contact them

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  12. inthebelljar - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by inthebelljar Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:46PM

    sure, it is okay.. and there's nothing wrong with being celibate either..

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  13. NegaDraven - 22-25 years old

    Posted by NegaDraven Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:46PM

    Most people feel like they have to more to offer, my advice? Find someone you have fun with and then work off that.

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  14. ssj29 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by ssj29 Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:47PM

    touché

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  15. jackblasio - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by jackblasio Nov 30th, 2012 at 10:46PM

    Let your heart be your guide!

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