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Is it okay to really fall in love with a person you have been seeing everyday through video chat?

I've met this guy online not from a dating site. We've met in a language exchange site. We were both learning different languages and cultures. We've started through text chatting then, eventually, video chat everyday. We were both comfortable with each other sharing daily and personal stuffs. He's so open about everything. We've watched movies together online, listen to music together etc. He would share his plans in the future. He said he wanted to us to meet someday. When he's off from work, he we would like spend the whole day talking to each other. He wanted to see me before he sleeps and as soon as he wakes up or before I sleep and as soon as I wake up. I know a lot of people are saying that it's not good to fall in love with someone you haven't met but I see him face to face everyday. Does this count? I think I'm falling for him but I need help.
Posted 5 months ago
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i think it's always ok to fall in love! enjoy it b/c it's a part of your life story to experience all of these things!

as far as going further, you'll have to discuss that with the man, see what he's feeling, and use the same common sense and caution that you use w/ any online relationship!
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 10:41AM
I spoke to my fiancee "SbuggleBear" for over a year on the phone and on the computer for over a year before we met.Just make sure it is the person you love and not the idea of sex that youy love.
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 8:58AM
my ex fell in love with a hefty tauren in world of warcraft... i'd say you are better off seeing the real guy in vid chat. i'd say be careful.
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 5:39AM
Who can decide whether or not it's "okay" to fall in love? If you have fallen for him, so be it! Take the next steps, such as seeing if he feels the same. :)
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 4:22AM
People fall in love every day with other people they have met online and never even seen.
Why wouldnt it be okay to fall in love with someone you see?
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 10:41PM
Me and my fiancee started talking on a website then we started talking every day on Yahoo Messenger he lived almost 4 hours away from me. I never thought I would fall in love with someone from the internet, we talked online for about a year then we started talking on the phone every day there was not a day went by I didn't sit by the phone and wait to hear his voice. The first day I saw him on webcam I felt so close to him we had such a connection between us. After long hours of talking on the internet and phone he moved here to be with me next week it will be a year he has been here we are engaged to be married soon. We have a very passionate, deep love for each other. If you follow your heart you will not go wrong if you love someone your heart will let you know what to do. I have never loved anyone the way I love my internet man. I am very thankful I met my man and hope we share the rest of our lives together.
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