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Is it possible to meet a guy if I am 38 with two kids under 10?

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A lady from our local church has 4 children and was 39, and now she has a new husband and a new addition to her family
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 12:30PM
As a guy, I have no problem with dating a mom. It can be complicated, but what relationship isn't? In fact, generally speaking, women who have kids (IMHO) are a bit more "sane" and confident about what they want than those who don't.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 10:15AM
Of course, and when meeting a guy, you may need to tell him you have two kids =) 38 is still young, and you may need romance...
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Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 11:10PM
Hell yes there may be one your age with one or two of his own, Visit parks and places where single parents take their kids...Good Luck...
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 10:16AM
totally of course! Don't even think otherwise. But your focus should be on your kids and you if you happen to meet a man that is an extra blessing- which I am sure God will provide if you keep your focus on your children.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 4:13PM
Dare to Dream
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Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 11:10PM
Yes, don't ever, ever, limit yourself.
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Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 11:10PM
Sure, if she has kids at least you know she puts out! :D
There, now l've cleared my evil little mind of such thoughts let me answer properly.
The main obstacle to a relationship will be wether your kids like the guy. If they don't, trust them and look elsewhere. Kids have an amazing radar for such things. Take it slowly though, they also will be dead against sharing their mom unless they believe it's their idea.
A woman of 38 is not by any means too old to date, in fact thats a very good age. The chances are good you are over most if not all your insecurities and hang-ups, you have a bit of experience under your belt so won't need any teaching lol!, and have a realistic view of life. That's attractive in a woman.
Keep in mind of course that these ARE generalizations, and my own views to boot, but l urge you to take good note of your kids reactions to a bloke, they really do have excellent 'radar'.
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Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 11:10PM
Absolutely YES!

....and don't "settle" either.
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Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 10:08PM
Absolutely it is, but it may be tough.
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Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 11:11PM
There are plenty of men who put feelings ahead of common sense, so I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Seriously, though, as long as they're good kids and they get along with whomever he is (and vice versa) they should be absolutely no problem. If he doesn't have any, though, just thoroughly go over his desire (if any) to have children of his own, with you, because you might not want to have more than two.
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Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 11:10PM
Oh yea. A friend of mine married such a woman.
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Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 11:58PM
Anythings possible :)
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 6:29AM
life can change at any moment .maybe the question that u should be asking is why do i need a guy to make me happy?how can i make myself happy?if you ask this then set about making yourself happy then when your least expect it you will fall in love but if u dont ........atleast you will be happy
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 8:55AM
sure it is. I've known it to happen to many women in your situation.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 10:38AM
yes ,i do not think just because you have kids ,does not mean you can not go out on dates and get to know him . your children will allso get to know him.as some children .may not like to share there mother with you . the man must show ,he likes there mother.and with two kids he has an instint family.so yes ,but get but get to know him first.make shure he is not just after a one night stand.
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Posted Jun 28th, 2009 at 2:47AM
Better for you and the kids not to do so untill they get older. Unliss He would like to Adoupt your kids.
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