Is it racist to prefer dating a specific race of people over others?
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Posted by bijouxbroussard May 30th, 2012 at 8:07PM
I don't think it is. One's choice of date or mate is the most personal choice there is. It's racist to attempt to forbid OTHERS from dating someone based on race.
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Posted by CreateTVT May 30th, 2012 at 8:03PM
It would be racist to not date someone because of there race, you just prefer a specific type.
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Reply by BarvoDelancy May 30th, 2012 at 8:23PM
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Posted by BarvoDelancy May 30th, 2012 at 8:28PM
Well, sort of.
sed on their individual qualities rather than your past experiences of people who might share their skin colour. If you spend the rest of your life only attracted to women from one sort of background - no biggie. It's about an attitude, not who you actually end up dating.
It's not racist to find that you're attracted to people of a certain ethnic and cultural background. That's perfectly normal. Like attracts like. Where you run into trouble is by making grand statements about race and trying to qualify them.
Example:
"I only date white women."
"Why? What's wrong with Korean women?"
The moment you start answering that you're on shaky ground. We all make mental short cuts and stereotype. Your job is to think past those stereotypes and judge people ba
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Posted by MrsJoanieBNH May 30th, 2012 at 8:03PM
Your attracted to what you are attracted to! end of race batting discussion!
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Posted by energeez May 30th, 2012 at 8:03PM
last time i answered this i got blocked.
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Posted by prsnlzd Dec 3rd, 2012 at 11:23AM
Though notions of racial supremacy are always racially prejudiced, the other way around isn't necessarily true. Racial prejudice isn't exclusively based in supremacy vs. inferiority. Example: "All asians enjoy rice." This is an actual racial prejudice even though it represents no concept of Asians being better or worse as people than anyone else.
sed... on race... as this racial pre-assessment/judgement is, indeed, the very factor informing and maintaining one's pre-held notion of their "personal preference."
What many don't seem to quite grasp is that the meaning of the phrase "racial prejudice" is, literally, a pre-judgement of others predicated on race. It’s not limited to only certain "areas" of racial "pre-judgement," or prejudice. Racial pre-judgement can inform our sensibility toward unknown/unseen individuals (in other words, absent true personal experience of said individual) in the presumptive assessment of an individual's potential for "areas" including, but not limited to inferiority, superiority, culture, personality, level of attractiveness, dietary preferences, intelligence, morality, sense of humor, political beliefs, extra-curricular activities, sexual preferences, relatability, height, etc., etc..
Thus, when one has a pre-judged belief *predicated on race* about how an individual *not yet presented* would *presumptively* be assessed in "x" types of ways... merely substituting this presumed "x" with "level of potential attractiveness or appeal" does not change the fact that it's still a presumption, a pre-judged notion, which is undeniably ba
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Question: "How do you know 'so-and-so' won't be attractive to you if you've yet to even meet or see 'so-and-so?'"
Answer: "Because I found out what 'so-and-so's' race is. And since I wasn't attracted to the other people I've seen or met so far who were of this race, I know without seeing or meeting, how attractive so-and-so will prove be, too."
Follow-up: "But since you've never seen nor met 'so-and-so', how do you know this particular person won't end up looking/seeming attractive once you have?"
Close: "Because there's one situation in which I don't need to actually see what one specifically looks like or seems like, to know before-the-fact, how attractive they could feasibly end up being regardless the degree to which their unique feature make-up would or wouldn't influence their appearance. You see, I'm able to simply pre-judge this if I hear ahead of time that they are of a certain race... because that, right there is, already, all that I need to know."
So, yes, it truly, truly is "personal preference" which, yes, truly can be influenced by many factors. The above merely demonstrates the specific kind of personal preference that happens to truly be influenced by instincts, emotions, perceptions, and presumptions that are admittedly and by definition, **somewhat prejudiced by race.
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Reply by prsnlzd Dec 3rd, 2012 at 12:40AM
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Posted by JulianSavier May 31st, 2012 at 9:58AM
well if its "I prefer to date so and so", than no... but if its "i will only date so and so" than yes it is
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Posted by lostinmyownhome May 30th, 2012 at 10:56PM
Is it so different than only dating blondes? Some people have specific preferences, that's all.
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Posted by blingblogbloop May 30th, 2012 at 8:19PM
For some its the way they are raised, i think one can never find truly love if you limit yourself to one race, I have friends like that. Me on the other hand think there is beauty in all race, love is blind
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Posted by 555calif May 30th, 2012 at 8:08PM
Like Jerry said to George in a "Seinfeld " episode when he was getting ready to go on a date with a Chinese women , "It's not racist if you like them."
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Posted by beenbad May 30th, 2012 at 8:05PM
NO, but people of that race will probably think you are.
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Posted by dustypork May 30th, 2012 at 8:03PM
In my opinion, only if the said race is different from your own. Like white guys preferring Asian women, or black guys preferring white women.
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Posted by cooney55 May 30th, 2012 at 8:03PM
Nobody really blames you. By and large, I prefer white girls too.
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Posted by Scorpio1991 May 30th, 2012 at 8:02PM
not at all.
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Posted by Durion23 May 30th, 2012 at 8:02PM
I wouldn't say so. That's just what you find attractive.
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