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Is it right to be in a relationship with a man 30 years older then you?

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It's hollywooditus. But my daughter dates a man who is in his seventies and she is 31 and the next older one she's also dating is in his 60's. Talk about wanting a father figure. I say she's looking for a grand father figure. It really grosses me out. At MY age I wouldn't mess with those old tree trunks.
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missmarymack13
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 9:26AM
well that is quite an age difference but love is love and if you truely love someone age doesent matter
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Bisou
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 9:26AM
if it is legal then it is right.

If its smart is something else. You will find a lot of differences and although love does not know age it does no death and when he is gone you will be alone.
People will give you strange looks too, which can make for arguements.

If you are happy and realise all that then yeah i dont see anything wrong with it
As long as he doesnt hurt you :)
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Faucon
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 9:29AM
I've been married for almost 28 years to a man who's 26 years older than me.
So, in my case, it worked! "Right" depends on the relationship and the people in it, not on age.
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IlooklikeJesus
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 10:15AM
Not if you're four. Or ninety.
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2Emotional
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 10:18AM
If both the people are consenting adults I don't think there's anything wrong with it. While I've never been attracted to much older men, some women are. Age is just a number anyway.
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SaunaGuy
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 10:56AM
only if you are of legal age. Once the two have passed that barrier then it's all fair game.
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TheGoldenBear
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 11:33AM
Unless he is 38...As long as everyone is happy, it shouldn't be a problem.
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porkchopsandwich
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 11:53AM
Age ain't nuthin but a number, baby.
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Puffaluffagous
Posted Aug 8th, 2009 at 1:03PM
It is up to the individual to decide what is "right" for themselves, but that is quite an age difference and I think that it will take it's toll on the relationship in the long term.
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wackywilly
Posted Aug 10th, 2009 at 12:24AM
depends on your age
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stealthette
Posted Aug 10th, 2009 at 1:54AM
Your heart will tell you....meanwhile your head will tell you what everyone else 'might' think.

Do what feels right, life is too short not to.
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