You could write her, but it won't do much good IF he's good at what he does. They don't come into the relationship being abusive; it happens over time. You could try, but if he's experienced it won't do ya any good. Considering you're an ex, he's just going to call you crazy and jealous anyway. There have been cases where men have murdered MORE than one ex wife, yet STILL able to convince women they weren't abusive until it was too late. And the new girlfriends even knew he was a suspect in all cases. Some men are very deceptive...
Six months makes sense. He'll be able to work around it. You could give her a head's up, but unless SHE is experienced it won't make any difference.
Yep. I hope you find some peace. Don't get Stockholm Syndrome (SS)!
I don't think so... :-/ It's more about an after-effect of the psychological trauma.
No.. She wont believe and it makes you look like a fool with sour grapes in your mouth. Let it go.
I've thought the very same thing before. I understand your desire to help. I'm just warning you, it might not do you any good other than making yourself feel like you've done the right thing. If it will make you feel better, do it. I understand the feeling.
On that we agree.