Is it selfish of me to want some "alone time" with my long distance love without his children once in a while?
My boyfriend and I have been in a very long distance relationship for 2 years. We see each other for long weekends every 2-3 months. Of the dozen or so visits we've had during that time, only 2 of them have been with just us alone. Due to scheduling, our visits tend to fall on the weekends he has his kids. I get along with them very well and enjoy having them around. However, we are at a point in our relationship where he wants me to move where he is, 800 miles away, which requires me to quit my job and leave my family and friends. I want to be with this man and his children and I have every intention of moving, but I would have liked to have had more time with him in person alone to learn about ourselves in our natural "habitat". The only times we are "alone" is on the phone or on skype. We have an opportunity coming up for another weekend and he happens to have his children again. Is it selfish of me to ask him to sacrifice that weekend for us? Thanks for the advice!