Is it the deeds that you do that your spouse loves you?

neither. Love is unconditional- for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. Anything less and the marriage is bound to fail.

Of course this doesn't condone unfaithfulness- but it means love is stronger.

Cos Im good looking, a good bloke, perfect gentleman, strong, virile, responsible ..and ahhh oh yes..and Im very modest.... hehehe..

We have a long and happy marriage because we give 100% 100% to the relationship not 50 - 50....

The secret of true love in a committed relationship is like the weather... when it rains you put the umbrella up, when its cold you cuddle, when its hot you get your clothes off and have fun, when its stormy you ride it out cos you know it always passes....

Breakdowns and divorce is because we blame each other for the storm around us...

Oh yeah baby, Mr. Lilt loves the deeds I do.

The key is eating the pink playdoh looking beet meal that your wife just made. ;) Then saying how yummy it was. haha

Mine stopped loving me because my illness made me irritable.
I was faithful for 24 years but then had an affair because I thought I had found love.
He (H) tells me love is very much conditional.
It hurts.

My Love has told me that she loves me for who I am. I know that I love her for who she is. What she does is a part of that, but not the whole part.