Unfortunately it sounds like your parents suffer from something known as stupidity. Around 90 percent of all people suffer from stupidity, so we're pretty much ******. Find a hobby to occupy yourself while the stupid organize to find new ways to kill all of us. <br />
My hobby is destroying them.
I'm going to guess that you will never find exactly what you are looking for unless you find it in yourself. F*#% 'em if they can't take a joke. Just do you. Succeed for you. Matter for you.
I don't think your parents are not mature, but as for being blind and deft? Now that can be a problem.
not if it means being old