Unfortunately it sounds like your parents suffer from something known as stupidity. Around 90 percent of all people suffer from stupidity, so we're pretty much ******. Find a hobby to occupy yourself while the stupid organize to find new ways to kill all of us.
My hobby is destroying them.
I'm going to guess that you will never find exactly what you are looking for unless you find it in yourself. F*#% 'em if they can't take a joke. Just do you. Succeed for you. Matter for you.
I don't think your parents are not mature, but as for being blind and deft? Now that can be a problem.
not if it means being old