Is it True .... women don't like men who are kind of bit dependent on them ?

Asked By: darkice123 36-40, M 8 months ago

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Posted by holahoopqueen Aug 31st, 2012 at 7:25AM

Confidence is hugly attractive!! I love my boyfriend and we were living togeather. I had him move out cuz he became totally dependant on me. I do not want a child that is dependant on me.. I want a man that can take care of himself!! I want a 50 50 relationship where we take care of one another. A co dependant relationship is not healthy!!!

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Reply by darkice123 Aug 31st, 2012 at 7:30AM

What is point of getting into a relationship if one is independent of the other or don't need each other to be happy ?
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Reply by holahoopqueen Aug 31st, 2012 at 8:00AM

We do need each other and do make each other happy.. I just need things to change to 50/50. I want to be his best friend and lover.. and share the rest equally! And others are correct it depends on what your depending on each other for. You can not depend on another to do every thing for you! It is just not healthy!
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Posted by Temptressempress Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:34AM

yes its 1 gazillion percent true...nobody wants a cry baby

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Posted by Creamsicle Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:33AM

I like a man who can take care of himself with or without me.... I'd prefer he be with me because he wants to and not because he NEEDS to.

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Reply by holahoopqueen Aug 31st, 2012 at 8:24AM

well said Totally!!! That is why I moved my man out! he needs to lean to take care of himself.. that way I know he is with me cuz he wants to be.. not cuz he needs to be! I am his lover not his mother!!!
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Reply by FadedBleuJeans Aug 31st, 2012 at 7:04PM

Another GREAT reply, Creamsicle! Some folks mix up the concepts: Love and Need. It ought Never ever be: "I NEED you, therefore I love You" It is: I LOVE you, therefore I need You........ ♥
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Posted by Wurkoutgurl Aug 31st, 2012 at 7:26AM

Depends on what they are depending on them for.

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Posted by ErieHandyMan Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:19AM

They need something to nag about. May as well give them something. :P

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Reply by Christina33s Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:26AM

Watch it buddy ..grrr !
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Reply by ErieHandyMan Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:29AM

Except for you of course. :D
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Posted by Spann0r Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:13AM

Keeping in mind all the attempts to achieve equality, they better don't mind that!

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Posted by LoveToads Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:11AM

Even a man wants a financially independent woman. Other than that, the relationship works if both need each other some.

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Posted by Brody1530 Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:09AM

Well of you're talking about financially, it is a major turn off if they can't take care of themselves.. unless you're like a young college student.. I'm a broke college student myself so i understand that..

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Posted by MrsJoanieBNH Aug 31st, 2012 at 6:09AM

In general, the common answer would be probably.

Specifically there could be a few strong willed leader type women who want/enjoy control and to have a man/woman dependent on them. I'm with one!

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