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Is it weird that my co worker (23 years old) flirts with older male customers (55+) but she is a lesbian?

She even gave her number to a couple of them and they text her. LOL! Attention starved? *shudder* I just can't see myself doing the same thing with older female customers who are friendly with me.

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    InTheMiddle88 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by InTheMiddle88 1 May 24th, 2012 at 9:18PM

    Does she work on commission? haha

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  1. LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LizardKing May 24th, 2012 at 9:19PM

    No! We work at a hotel!

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  2. WhiteWidowess - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by WhiteWidowess May 24th, 2012 at 9:20PM

    That is what I was thinking..Right?

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14 Answers to "Is it weird that my co worker (23 years old) flirts with older male customers (55+) but she is a lesbian?"

  1. krool1969 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by krool1969 May 24th, 2012 at 9:34PM

    No not really. If she's in a service profession she's trying to earn more tips. Maybe she just likes making these older guys feel better.

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  2. Aurinne - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Aurinne May 24th, 2012 at 9:20PM

    If it was coworkers, I'd think she was just playing... but with customers, and giving them her number... I admit I'm a little confused, unless she is bi and like older men.

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  3. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Posted by justkoz May 24th, 2012 at 9:19PM

    A woman can get away with a lot more than any guy out there.
    Some Lesbian's love the attention they get with either sex.

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  4. LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LizardKing May 24th, 2012 at 9:21PM

    I think its a big attention thing lol

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  5. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Reply by justkoz May 24th, 2012 at 9:22PM

    Exactly!

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  6. equalsOral - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by equalsOral Jun 23rd, 2012 at 2:49PM

    she seems like a flirty person .. maybe she just feels safe flirting with these people...I am not gay but what I owned a business in a gay town I flirted with all of the... but that goes on the same line as commission.

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  7. 2011A - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by 2011A May 24th, 2012 at 10:39PM

    Why would this even interest you? She could be ambitious. She could be friendly. Lesbians do talk to men. They are not aliens. Leave her be. Unless you are interested in her personally as more than you admit...She is not harming you or others....Just my opinion. And, having worked in a hotel many years ago, I wonder how you have time to sit and chat while you are working?

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  8. dillingermaster - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by dillingermaster May 24th, 2012 at 9:57PM

    Dude. You summed it up perfectly. CUSTOMER. She may be a genuinely nice person, but women are also smart. Making that old man smile by flirting a little will make their experience more enjoyable. Just don`t go flirting with the female guests. Granny`s can of pepper spray stings...A LOT.

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  9. underrock - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by underrock May 24th, 2012 at 9:49PM

    I worked with someone like this! She would hug and throw herself on 80+ yr old men! Or any man for that matter. I really didn't mind @ first. But then at some point it just is obvious that this person has problems and is so phoney. Yes its annoying!

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  10. underrock - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by underrock May 24th, 2012 at 9:50PM

    But she never claimed to be a lesibian.

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  11. Infinite9 - 70+ years old - female

    Posted by Infinite9 May 24th, 2012 at 9:25PM

    If she's doing it with all of them, then yeah it's for attention. Or maybe she's into that kind of thing, who knows what she's doing away from her job with those guys.

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  12. LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LizardKing May 24th, 2012 at 9:27PM

    She says she hasn't seen them outside of work and I believe her. She is like my sister

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  13. growwhereyouglow - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by growwhereyouglow May 24th, 2012 at 9:22PM

    Okay...there is something about certain (not all) 55+ year old men that just have IT. I've always been attracted to older men, but perhaps I wasn't wrong in my assumption. I mean, look at your 23 year old lesbian co-worker...even she had to give him her number. This question made me laugh...then grin ;} To sum it up (again not all carry this trait), but they are sexy as hell!

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  14. LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LizardKing May 24th, 2012 at 9:25PM

    No trust me, the ones in question are not sexy hehe.

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  15. growwhereyouglow - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by growwhereyouglow May 24th, 2012 at 9:27PM

    Ha...that's too bad...although perhaps for her she abides by 'to each their own'. Or of course, the very obvious fact is that she may be a career opportunist.

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  16. ob1kenobe - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by ob1kenobe May 24th, 2012 at 9:20PM

    Stranger things have happened.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sVR1JunnuGE

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  17. LostinENC - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by LostinENC May 24th, 2012 at 9:20PM

    Weird? No.... She is trying to get ahead. (and probably will)
    A little bit of brown-nosing never hurt anyone.

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  18. udidwhatwhere - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by udidwhatwhere May 24th, 2012 at 9:19PM

    Does she work for tips or sales?

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  19. LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LizardKing May 24th, 2012 at 9:21PM

    Nope

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  20. WoodersonAlriiight - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by WoodersonAlriiight May 24th, 2012 at 9:19PM

    Could be Bi with a thing for older guys.

    Depends what you work in too. She could be doing it for sales.

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  21. LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LizardKing May 24th, 2012 at 9:20PM

    Hospitality, we work at a hotel. No, she is not interested in them like that I know!

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  22. WoodersonAlriiight - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by WoodersonAlriiight May 24th, 2012 at 9:25PM

    Maybe she is bored when working and finds flirting fun even if it doesn't turn her on or anything.

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