Is it weird to be best friends with your best friends fiance? When you met through her?
I've been best friends with this girl for 10 years. She met a guy a year ago, and now they are engaged to be married. somewhere along the way, he and I became good friends. We talk on the phone and text nearly every day. She knows most of the conversations we have, not because she looks through our phones, but because we openly tell her what we talk about, because we want her to be part of the conversation, too. Recently I've been told that it's very odd that he and I are such close friends.
Close enough friends that, say he needs a ride to the gas station for cigs, and she's busy, she'll ask me to take him. (The gas station is a 25 minute drive one way.)
4 Answers to "Is it weird to be best friends with your best friends fiance? When you met through her?"
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No I'm friends with my best friends husband and have been friends with both of them for 36 years-am meeting all the grandchildren at thanksgiving-Babysat and the kids are grown and miss me and want me to meet their children-cool huh? Best thanksgiving I've had in years
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I don't find it weird, I find it to be flirting with danger~ on both your parts ... even if you don't realize it, but you do realize it, or you wouldn't have asked this here.
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Honestly, I hadn't given it much thought until someone told me that it was strange and inappropriate. We had never found it weird. It was just our life.. We are family to each other.
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If it works....that's cool~
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someone is trying to start trouble for you all! ALSO IT IS NOT ANYBODY'S BUSINESS WHAT YOU THREE DO ANYWAYS!their trying to crack one of you so you all three need to find out who it is and take that person out of your group of friends!
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Thank you! It was actually a mutual friend between he and I. He found out how often we talk, and started saying how weird it is that he and I are friends, and talk all the time, and asking how SHE (being sure he never said her name, always calling her SHE) felt about it.. I said she doesn't mind. He said I'm sure SHE doesn't. it's nice how close you two are. I'm sure she's happy about it.
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awesome! keep your friends close and your enemies closer!
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Posted by Redheadedpunk Oct 15th, 2012 at 11:20PM
Yes it's weird. I think there is a connection between the two of you. I would not feel
comfortable with it if he was my man, but do what u please
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Reply by simplencountry Oct 15th, 2012 at 11:21PM
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Reply by Redheadedpunk Oct 15th, 2012 at 11:31PM
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