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Is it weird?

I'm a 20 year old straight female that's never had a boyfriend. It seems like everyone else I know is dating someone.
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Maybe you've been too busy with other things to do so. Maybe your introverted which might hold you back somewhat.
Maybe the guys you've been around are just jerks.
Maybe it's a combination of these things and other unknown circumstances that have got you here.
Doesn't seem weird though at 20. If you were 40 or older and still hadn't had at least one b/f, then that would be weird.
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 1:53PM
No, its not unusual.
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 1:53PM
So what. No you're not weird. You have your mind and interests in other places. There is plenty of time for boys and dating. Enjoy yourself, I'm proud of you. You're not following the crowd. Don't let people make fun of you. Tell them you're picky. Waiting for someone to come up to your standards. You'll wind up with the best catch later. Have fun......
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 1:51PM
I think society puts too much pressure on people to date. I had a recent conversation with some nieces , of different families...ages 9, 11, 13 and all they could talk about was the fact that they should be dating as other girls were. Stupid .... I have no idea why it is considered kool t have a relationship young...because it really isn't. I hope you have dated or have the opportunity to socialize a bit because it is good to interact and learn from the opposite sex but a relationship take a lot of time and often down the road its a waste ... I mean people usually bemoan the time wasted on a young relationship(s) and not spent with friends and school or work . Keep doing the things you need and want to do enjoy your life and a boyfriend will come around soon enough.
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 10:38PM
I don't think it's weird, I never had a boyfriend until I was 20 as well.
Well, I had a few flings in junior high and high school but nothing serious or long lasting.
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 11:12PM
Why are you restricting yourself like that? I hope you've at least had sex.
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 11:20PM
Better no bf than a bad bf.
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 1:29AM
I'm 31 and never had a long term serious relationship...

unless 2 months is long term...

*shaka*
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