yes... pretty much all that is worthwhile is shared being..
But the conundrum is, why would anyone stop being conceited just to be happy? In an attempt to fulfill your need for happiness, you try to be selfless.
It's an oxymoron.
According to experts, the happiest people are the least self-absorbed. But I'm more concerned that there are experts on happiness. How depressing does it have to be to study other people's happiness?