A child's fancy is just a kind of admiration and whistful make believe... it is about the desire to love and be loved but has no sexual component to it, because there's no hormones to generate such feelings.<br />
Around puberty and adolescence, young people can develop crushes on older people of either gender, irrespective of their future preferences. As intense as these feelings can some times be, they are not wrong in themselves, just better not acted upon.<br />
There are many reasons both psychological and physical for the law on age. Please trust that the majority of adults strongly agree on this, for the young person's best welfare. When you are an adult yourself you will quickly come to understand it.<br />
Any adult who is stupid enough to be flattered by a young person's crush is highly immature. The end results of such tangles are painful for everyone concerned. <br />
A fancy isn't wrong... but acting on it in any way would be.

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We all have crushes as a child. I don't think it is wrong, but if it goes beyond that.. well yeh, it's wrong and the adult should do the adult thing and back off. A child is too young to know what he or she is doing, but then again, these kids nowadays..

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nothing wrong with fancying someone older <br />
a lot of kids get crushes on teachers, movie stars or other adults.<br />
as long as it remains a dream all is well.

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Daddy issues or got for teacher type thing? Dont stand so close too ME!

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I had crushes on older women... but never acted on them

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I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

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