Is it wrong for your lover to talk to there ex's a lot? it ruined my relationship how bout you.?

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It would drive me crazy for that to happen. I think when it comes to being friends with the opposite sex that both people should be friends with them to avoid jealousy and such.

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mzdivine	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 7:44PM YES and NO! Do not we not have the right to talk to whomever we want ? Do not be... J E A L O U S There are things worse!! Rated: +2Vote for this!
yourtruestar	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 7:45PM um yes. i hate it..thankfully it doesn't happen anymore..i'm not so much of the jealous type..but just knowing the bond that was there is enough to make you cringe..and enough to make you insecure and rip apart your relationship. Rated: +1Vote for this!
LillyLou	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 7:45PM I guess it depends on the circumstances as to why they are talking to them. I have to talk to mine, as we share custody of children. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Shoreboy	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 7:46PM Unless they have children, are in business together, or have a joint piece of property my vote is yes it's wrong. However, it's only an issue if you've confronted your lover about it and explained how uncomfortable you are with it. If he/she had a long term relationship that involved both parties families that could be more complicated, but your lover should be willing to discuss it openly and honestly with you. If they are not willing to do so, or become defensive about it I personally would be concerned. Rated: +1Vote for this!
unicorn59	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 1:38AM If there are children involved, it's inevitable....but, if not....I don't think I'd like it at all....It's never been a problem in my marriage....but, I can certainly see why it would bother you. Rated: +1Vote for this!
taushalove	Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 1:12AM I think you can talk to anyone you want, whether your in a relationship or not. It's not really the issue of the person who still has a friendly relationship with their ex, it's the other person. If you have trust issues, then you should work on them, not control the communication your partner has with other people. Life is far to short to be jealous. Reach out and suggest your partner invite their ex to a party or BBQ you throw..... you never know, they might become your friend too! Rated: +1Vote for this!

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