Is it wrong to be afraid of relationships?
A lot of guys I've known have asked me out and it kind of creeps me out only because no guy really "noticed" me til this year. The last time I went out with a guy, it ended horribly and I'm afraid to go back into one because of that and other reasons.
9 Answers to "Is it wrong to be afraid of relationships?"
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it`s normal..........
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Not so much a matter of right and wrong, but not helpful if you're wanting to move on and have a healthy relationship with someone else. Counseling is a good thing, and there's no shame in seeking help to heal your heart, just as you'd see a doctor for a physical wound. ;)
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you're right at the normal age for guys to first start noticing you. you seem like you're gonna be just fine to me.
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We learn from things in relationships...good & bad. It's natural to be afraid if one ends badly.
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normal :D you will get over it
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I think it may be stupid to put yourself in a situation you know you're ready for. But don't make ONE guy be the rest of the men's responsibility for however this one guy treated you. you just have to use the best judgement you can if you're going to accept an invitation to dating. I would not date in the very moment that he asks you becuase I believe a friendship needs to be there first. If he does not even want to do that, then maybe he's in too much of a hurry for something that may not benefit you.
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go out so what if one went bad-ur missing out on that very good one going just right
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If you've been burned badly before in the past, no... not at all. :-)
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by Depressed4Life Jul 22nd, 2012 at 7:22PM
There is no right or wrong to it. You feel the way you do because you were hurt. Don't rush it. You don't have to be in a relationship. In time you will feel better about it. Just try to be patient.
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