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Is it wrong to be gay?

Ok.. So I'm 13 yo.. My family is Christian and my dad is really homophobic.. And I'm gay...

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  1. riskit - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by riskit Mar 13th, 2013 at 12:07PM

    No. God made you. God made you as a gay. God does not make mistakes. Therefore, being gay is not a mistake or wrong.

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  2. joboy12 - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by joboy12 Mar 20th, 2013 at 1:01PM

    Amen

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  3. oceanastronaut - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by oceanastronaut Mar 13th, 2013 at 6:39AM

    No of course its not wrong! Always be proud of who you are and dont be ashamed to love who you love. Sometimes people have a hard time accepting what they dont understand or people that are different from themselves. But you cant let those people stand in the way of you being yourself. Love yourself no matter what :) It may be hard for your dad to accept you, but you just have to teach him that being gay doesnt make you a different person. Whatever happens in the future, live your life with your head high :) it takes a really brave person to be who they are. Im here if you need any one to talk to.

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  4. joboy12 - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by joboy12 Mar 20th, 2013 at 1:03PM

    Great answer to this question totally true

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  5. squirelbud - 13-15 years old - male

    Posted by squirelbud Mar 17th, 2013 at 10:24PM

    I sure hope not! cause thats the way i am!!! (stick tongue out)

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  6. keybekeybe - 46-50 years old

    Posted by keybekeybe Mar 13th, 2013 at 7:27AM

    why because people say it is, or it go's against GOD we all chose be something or someone its what ever makes you happy not what the majority say, its what you say, what you believe, what you want in your life, the majority believe in others and not them self for fear god might judge them, he already knew you according to popular belief why do you think your here so he can judge you wrong. what kind of God would he be if he done that, not a very good one if you ask me, because he would have seen everything you were going to do in this life before you got here you would have already be in hell if popular belief is to be believed, but your not. You are here, with us all so smile and enjoy your life, live love and be well.

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  7. BigbadGus - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by BigbadGus Mar 13th, 2013 at 6:21AM

    Keep your head down till you're 18, move to the big city, and then come out. Being a teen is tough, don't make it harder than it needs to be. In adulthood you can live as you please, its not that far away.

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  8. Bear75762 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Bear75762 May 10th, 2013 at 3:26PM

    Do you feel it is wrong to be gay? Because it is you that matters. If you are OK with your sexual orientation, then don't worry about it.

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  9. Alexs13 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Alexs13 Apr 1st, 2013 at 4:16PM

    Im gay too and it is not

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  10. TheGreatkieran - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by TheGreatkieran Mar 24th, 2013 at 4:32AM

    I'm not gay or Christian
    But you have to think who does your dad love more. God or his family
    My friend is gay, and he was in the exact same place as you. Most perants are a little homophobic because they try to make there kids not gay of course it doesn't work.

    May way of thinking is, you're not gay, don't ever label your self as gay, you are a person.

    Just tell them, get it off your chest. God made you the way you are my friend

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  11. laxer29 - 13-15 years old - male

    Posted by laxer29 Mar 23rd, 2013 at 11:26PM

    Its not wrong at all, if you are gay then that it how GOD made you, he loves you no mader what.

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  12. MultiAtEverything - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by MultiAtEverything Mar 23rd, 2013 at 9:04AM

    No not at all. I'm Gay Both my parents are homophobic, But they need to understand i'm gay i am who i am.

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  13. Co1999 - male

    Reply by Co1999 Mar 23rd, 2013 at 9:06AM

    do they know u r gay?

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  14. Sauj247 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Sauj247 Mar 21st, 2013 at 10:22PM

    No of course not there nothing wrong with it. I agree with riskit GOD made u who u are I mean being gay if only a part of who u r

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  15. dllouie - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by dllouie Mar 20th, 2013 at 4:48PM

    No.God made me that way.If we were all the same life would be boring.I don't believe that it is a choice.It is no different than those who are straight.They did not get to chose to be straight, likewise they were born that way just as we were born the way we are.Are sexuality is not the only thing that defines us.It is most important that we are good people with good morals and values as well as a positive contribution to society.Be true to yourself and you will be much happier.I met my soul mate when I was 20 yrs old.That was well over thirty yrs ago and thank God everyday for having him as he is such important part of my life.Wish you all the happiness in the world.

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  16. iamklowd - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by iamklowd Mar 20th, 2013 at 2:24AM

    Homophobia isn't real.

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  17. peedidhe - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by peedidhe Mar 20th, 2013 at 1:23AM

    simple answer no to be gay is just to express who you really are if you dont you wont feel right ever

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  18. emperorofman2 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by emperorofman2 Mar 17th, 2013 at 12:32AM

    Not at all. But since your so young, id try to keep it a secret till u mature. I made the itake of telling my friends I'm bi when I was 14. I lost some friends and gained some too;D
    Like I told you, ill try to answear any quetion you have regaurding anything from living as a gay teen, sex and who tell and hiding it it.
    I'm here for you bud;)

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  19. will1794 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by will1794 Mar 15th, 2013 at 6:37PM

    No way man, its part of who you are as a human being

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  20. manuelez - 18-21 years old

    Posted by manuelez Mar 13th, 2013 at 6:35AM

    Not really only that if you trust in yourself though not easy to find someone one may wish

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  21. onir - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by onir Mar 13th, 2013 at 6:19AM

    only you know the answer but it might take your dad time grasp it

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