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Is it wrong to dream about a best friends boyfriend?
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no.
its only wrong if you act upon said dream
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Posted Nov 11th, 2008 at 7:46AM
No one can control their dreams, so no.
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 10:31PM
If it's a dream you had at night while you were asleep, then no because you had no control over it.

If it's a daydream, then it's not wrong per se, but it's still probably not a good idea to act on it.
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 10:31PM
No - but it IS wrong to forget the apostrophe in "friend's".
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Posted Nov 11th, 2008 at 7:45AM
You can't control your dreams so no, I don't think it's wrong.

However, it would be wrong of you to act upon this dream -ie try to steal your friend's boyfriend.

I've dreamt about all sorts of people but it doesn't mean I fancy them or want to sleep with them.
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 9:07AM
yes
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 10:48AM
it is good to dream all nite but to live in dream is not good.. its wrong.. i personally thing.. if u r dreaming about ur best friends boy friend.. then u should stop.. otherwise u gona lose ur best friend... regards
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 8:29AM
No it's not wrong, it's likely the dream may not even be about him specifically. Dreams can be interpreted in many different ways. Maybe you don't like him specifically but like the qualities he possesses or maybe he said something that you took into your sub conscious without realizing it.

Don't bother mentioning it to your best friend and create unnecessary problems. It also depends on what his role in the dream was. He could just be a messenger and that you dreamt of him because he is someone known to you in your waking life. There are many different reasons why you might see him in your dreams but don't let one dream spin you out of control.
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Posted Nov 11th, 2008 at 7:12AM
Listen I dreamed my dead husband was leaving me - a year or more after his death. Look the dream up, then decide.

Just for information though it is just poor morals and bad taste to go after your familys' men (mom, sister, auntie, etc.) your best friends or friends' men, and your co-workers' men. You start more trouble than you can handle and lose more than you could ever gain, usually in those type situations. And, usually the man does not stay with you because men have a different code of ethics for themselves than they will have for you.
Peace and Much Love to you.
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 7:41AM
That depends what were you dreaming about doing to her boyfriend?
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 7:54PM
Dream yes.
Steal? no.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 7:57PM
all kinds of people pop up in our dreams, so no, that's not wrong. if you were dreaming about being with him though, that's a different story. as long as you keep it confined to your dreams, that's ok.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 8:10PM
I don't think it's wrong. You don't really have much control over what you dream about.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 9:09PM
Please listen to Rusted, Scoobydoo57,Jerrica, Princessmore,andMrsLaing. They all agree that dreams are uncontrolable. Acting on them is. Do you really want to see the consequences of your' actions if you follow those dreams? I hope not:]
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 11:16PM
It's not wrong to dream about anything. Dreams are just random images generated by the cerebral cortex. I dream about all kinds of wierd ****. Fortunately I usually don't remember much of it.
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 12:16AM
No...you can't control your dreams. A dream can't be a sin. Unless it's a lucid dream maybe.
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 12:51AM
ASK THE BEST FRIEND .IM SURE YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO NEVER DREAM ABOUT THAT.
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Posted Nov 10th, 2008 at 11:02AM
That dream makes you please ? does it make you happy? If you answer " yes", it is not wrong.
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Posted Nov 11th, 2008 at 9:21AM
Would you want your best friend to be dreaming about your boyfriend if the shoe were on the other foot?
There's your answer.
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Posted Nov 11th, 2008 at 10:46AM
For goodness's sake, if you want sex with someone else's boyfriend, tell him you're interested and ask him for what you want. There really is no point in deliberately not enjoying sex with someone who wants it and wants you.
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