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Is it wrong to go thru someones cell phone at the beginning of a relationship?

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AmericanMade
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No. You can never truly know someone and what they are capable of. If they are seeing someone else then you deserve to know. Who wants to date someone for years only to discover that they were dishonest from the start? Honestly, he won't tell you anything that you won't want to hear, so you will have to find out for yourself. Snoop away if it will make you feel better. You deserve to know who you are with and if that takes a little extra behind the scenes action, then so be it. Don't let these people make you feel bad, you have to do what you feel you have to do!
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drix
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 7:33PM
It wrong at any point in the relationship..
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CorneaGenii
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 7:33PM
Good God. YES. It's an invasion of privacy, and shows how little trust you have in the relationship. Either that or how insecure YOU are about the relationship.
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midlifemadness
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 3:58PM
Ah... yaaa!!! Your relationship isn't going to survive if you don't have Trust!!!
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misslucero
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 3:59PM
There is never a time when it is any of your concern to go through a cell phone which isn't yours. A cell phone is a private object and isn't for anyone but the person who owns it. If you have to go through his cell phone to make sure he isn't cheating or doing any funny business you two have no business being together in the first place.
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braxtonag
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 2:07PM
why are you insecure so early in the relationship?
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mzdivine
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 3:52PM
YES!
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SaratogaGirl
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 12:54PM
Yes. Totally!
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TheOutsider
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 12:56PM
Yes, it is. Curiosity is no excuse. You either trust them or you don't. If you don't, you have no business being in a relationship with them.
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ILustKarl
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 12:57PM
And the end too. But then again, at that point you already know what you are going to find, lol.
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denverguy
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 12:57PM
If you really feel like you can not trust the person then you do not love them. Have they done something to deserve your mistrust? If so then maybe you should ask them to see their cell phone.
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ratdog19055
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 12:58PM
yup. and if something makes you feel that you need to, that's not a good sign for the relationship.
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wiseowl
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 12:59PM
Trust isn't happening here..it's so wrong.Get a guy you trust or change your ways. It can be hurtful for both of you.
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imahag
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 12:59PM
Oh Hell yes
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geenpunchbuggie
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 1:05PM
um, yes. big time!!!
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jody123
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 1:09PM
um...yes!
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CaliGirl3
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 1:09PM
Yes!!!! I have had it done to me and I felt plain vilolated... Sure I had nothing to hide but it was a vilotalion of my provacy.. I wouldn't do that to someone..
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JADEDRUCKUS
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 1:25PM
very much..this shows that he/she will be very obsessive and controlling throughout your relationship
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hunter2149
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 1:34PM
I think yes... UNLESS, you have absolute fact or cause for doing so.... assumptions aren't good enough
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LeighLeigh
Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 1:41PM
It's wrong anytime in a relationship. If you don't trust the person you're with you need to find someone you can trust.
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