Is it wrong to have a boyfriend who is almost 18 when your barely 14?
20 Answers to "Is it wrong to have a boyfriend who is almost 18 when your barely 14?"
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4 years isn't really that much of a difference. I only think it would be wrong if you're engaging in sexual activity with him. But just dating? No.
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I would freak out if my daughter did that. She's 11 now
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Not really my first boyfriend was 17 when I was 14
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it's not only wrong, it's illegal.
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That's what I was thinking!Like (1)
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there is nothing illegal about to people seeing each other! sexual activity is different but other then that, sorry unless your from Texas or the midwest! lolLike (1)
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Its not bad...BUT wait when it comes to the deed until you are 18 and over :)
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yes it is wrong and dangerous for you both.
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not bad,, but you need to be careful about what you and your boyfriend's doing,,
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Depends on the type of guy he is
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I applaud your parents for having common sense when it came to this situation. You do not "NEED to date" at 14. My daughter will not be allowed to date until she is 16 years old. It is important that she be empowered to handle herself in a dating situation. She should at least be able to drive in case her date has some problems or issues. You will grow up in sufficient enough time. Don't be in such a hurry to "act" like an adult.
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ive been dating since i was 10 and lost "it" when i was 14, right after my birthday
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Not a good idea. If both are at a mature level thats one thing but at the young age of 14 honey your to young.
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yes
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mmm, your a bit young for him just now. The difference in age isn't really an issue, however the fact that your only 14 IS. The laws about relations between and adults and minors are there for real reasons. For one, adults are a bit more mature (in some cases >.>) and have a better understanding of what they're getting into. They've got jobs, opportunities etc. for support a family. A minor doesn't, however. That's why the laws are there. I personally, don't think love has an age... but it'd be hard to keep loving him if he's in prison :(
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If you both engage in a sexually relationship it will become illegal in most of not all states. Wait!!! You have many more years to fall in love and be with someone. smiles***
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Well once you learn the siren sounds of cop cars showing up..
Than naw....I can't see a problem..
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Yes, the years aren't the problem, it's the ages.
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A little creepy, you have to wonder why he can't get an 18 year old girlfriend. He may be super immature...be careful.
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Not really, just be careful with him when he is over 18, no sexual stuff. In reality, it's rather common for couples to be many years apart. My wife is 6 years older than my self, if I her and I stayed the same but in our younger selves. Well, when she was 18, I was 12, so I can't say it's wrong.
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Big difference. Not good for either.
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well its illegal due to you being underage, could be using you for your virginity/body so... kinda
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by AJDE Sep 25th, 2012 at 11:29PM
Well, it depends on where you are from! Age difference, there is NO problem because 2-6 years different is average, but at a younger age it does make a difference due to maturity level even though guys at that age are close to yours. Just wait for any sexual activity until you are at least older because most guys, once they take you, they will leave you and then you will loss your childhood and became a parent with NO help from 'daddy'. So Have fun but stay safe!
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