Why would that be wrong?
I wonder if your friend wants to be a friend or you have placed him in the "friend zone". If he is in the friend zone in your mind, he may have the idea that at some point he might not be, so he could be just waiting for things to change. You may want to explore this option before you decide what to do. Your husband to be might be picking up on this.
Not at all. But remember that you forsake all others for your husband. <br />
That doesn't mean drop the friend, it means make sure your husband knows and feels comfortable with that friend and be WILLING to drop that friend if your husband asks you to.