dude... its them thats not close to YOU. Its not you... You didn't do it... unfortunately :/
I agree with chimbie, you're not pushing them away, they're pushing you away.<br />
You can't help it if people are ignorant and don't accept you for who you are, you will one day.<br />
to hell with them...be yourself and let them adjust
They are the ones that are pushing you away. But all you can do is give it time. They will either grow to accept you or they never will. And if they don't, that's their loss. You should surround yourself with people who love and accept you for who YOU are. And I realize you can't choose your family but you can choose friends who make the pain of your family not accepting you a lot less.. well, painful.
Just go on with your life, if your "Family" does not support you, then they are not really a family at all.
It's not you: it's them. They are being selfish and small minded by shutting you out and wanting to change who you are...<br />
I'm straight, but my mom hates me because I'm successful... it sounds dumb because it is, and filling that void can feel impossible, though I do have an 'adopted family' who help when I need a squeeze... make your friends your family, and in due time, your kin should come around... <br />
Nothing should ever be worth losing you over. <3
I have an aunt that is gay and she is not friends with my family because they are anti gay
that sounds so ****** , sucks to be gay
:( I'm sorry.
it is what it is, no right or wrong about it, everyone has different circumstances