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I have two specific guidelines for considering dating a woman. These are: 1. No children 2. No tattoos or body piercings 3. Must take pride in their personal appearance. I have valid reasons for the above but have been told that I am "expecting too much". Am I?
CL4234 CL4234 56-60, M 12 Answers Aug 24 in Dating & Relationships

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At our age, it is unrealistic to expect a woman won't have children. They're likely to be teenagers or adults, however. Tattoos and piercings, I think that's realistic. I think that sort of deliberate self mutilation is ignorant. And I've dated women at both ends of the vanity scale, and all stages in between. My ex wife was a bit too prissy. She complained she had no good shoes for gardening, so I bought her a pair from a high end work shoe company. Turned out, what she really wanted was pretty shoes, and for me to slave away in the garden while she went shopping. I sure picked one, didn't I?

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I applaud you. There is nothing with it.

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No. That is perfectly fine. I am sure you will find a good girl.

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Gusse u don't go out much

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I think you've narrowed your choices a bit there

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I would rather narrow my choices than be used for either a babysitter or for financial support.

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It's not wrong but I doubt it will result in any lasting or satisfying relationship. You are looking to external clues to provide a kind of litmus test revealing internal qualities. More commonly known as judging a book by it's cover. People reflect their inner selves by there outward appearance but it's never the whole story. Finding out what's inside means digging a little deeper and taking a little more time. If you are simply looking for 'arm candy' your expectations are spot on, if you want a real relationship with a real person they may be lacking in some important areas. It's really up to you to figure out what you want and how to go about finding it.

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not wrong but well, u close down on chances and are more likely to be judgemental based on exterioe

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exterior, and do be aware that these ladies might be doing the same to u.

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It sounds ok to me, except for the no children part. You might attract a younger woman who wants kids. It's up to you.

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I wouldn't mind that, (women who want kids.) I don't dislike children but in the past they have always been used as a tool by the women I dated who had them. (Babysitting, requesting financial assistance, excuse to cancel a well planned date and even, going back to babysitting, a distraction in order to cheat on me.)

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OK...THREE specific guidelines.

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No,I don't think so.

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yes

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Yes how? Clarify.

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check for a pulse, go on from there

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