Is it wrong to tell your ex-lover his girlfriend (your best friend) that she cheated on him?
9 Answers to "Is it wrong to tell your ex-lover his girlfriend (your best friend) that she cheated on him?"
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This is tough, but I would maybe try to have a serious chat with my best friend and try to persuade her to stop cheating
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Gossip will do you wonders, you will make it go a full circle.
And in the end it will come back on you.
You sure live in a grown up world.
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yes.
It's their business to sort out their relationship with each other in their own way.
They can share their past histories with each other, or start of on a new footing with a personal vow to not repeat past mistakes.
If you interfere by sharing someone else's stuff, you may short circuit their opportunities to develop honesty and trust. if one or both have a tendency to stray, that can work that out for themselves also.Like (1)
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The fact that you are BEST friends with your ex-lover's girlfriend, indicates the three of you blur lines a bit, so how do you know she's cheating, ba
sed on how their relationship works ? And if she's your BEST friend, and he's merely your ex, why would you betray her by getting in the middle, even if she IS ? This could blow up in your face spectacularly , with NEITHER of them talking to you. Like (1)
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If you're going to tell him... do it in an indirect way so they don't know it was you.
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Wrong don't teach deciept.
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I'm not talking about lying how is is deceitful to either a) not cover up someone else's lies and b) discreetly avoid the complications of telling him face to face. I mean he deserves to know, but he probably doesn't want to her it from her of all people.
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Depends on which friendship you want to sacrifice. If you tell then you'll most likely lose your best friend but if you don't then you'll probably lose the friendship with your ex.
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If I was the dude I would want to know but would he believe you? Probably not .
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yes, butt out.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by towhead2 Nov 23rd, 2011 at 9:20PM
That doesn't sound like something you would do to a best friend.
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