Is life happier after divorcing ? Or is it more difficult ?

Asked By: devilwife 31-35, F 10 months ago

I been married for 8 years, have no kids, the reason for my divoce is that he cheated

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Posted by enchantingjade Jul 7th, 2012 at 3:54AM

Life is life...
full of challenges wether divorce or married
its the way how we look and do things in life that makes the difference
not our marital status

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Reply by devilwife Jul 7th, 2012 at 4:44AM

I like that...
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Reply by enchantingjade Jul 7th, 2012 at 4:50AM

i am only good at advising u..but wish i can tell my self the same...lol . Too bad we are distance away or else we can share lots of stories.... :)
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Posted by seamoss Jul 7th, 2012 at 10:46AM

Double edged sword...I'm divorcing now, final soon. I was on a crazy high for almost two months after losing 280 lbs of loser, who took over my life and was nothing but a burden for 5 yrs. After the high wore off, a few short term relationships, less high. Lonliness has kicked in. The only thing I miss about being married was company, even if mine was horrible. I'm dating a nice enough guy, but it won't work out long term unfortunately, just a gut feeling, so even though I'm not alone now, feel alone...But even though i'm not in a great mood, I was in a worse mood while with my ex. At least now, I can do what i want, listen to my music, and only have to clean up after myself--those sort of things mean alot sometimes. Freedom and re-finding your old self, and exploring things that were put on the back-burner while married are enough--and hopes of future interests and romance with someone not as careless/mean as your/my ex...

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Posted by ANONFU Jul 24th, 2012 at 4:30AM

You say you have no one, not true you have yourself.

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Posted by 8pops Jul 7th, 2012 at 4:04AM

You,d be free from that cheater is that not happiness in itself, (was it the first time he cheated)?

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Reply by devilwife Jul 7th, 2012 at 4:11AM

That I know of yes... if u are curious exactly why and how, u are welcome to read my story... its called he made me smell her perfume on his coat...
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Posted by anewfuture Jul 7th, 2012 at 3:57AM

It's sadder until you find someone else to love, then it gets happier.

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Posted by dilfek2010 Jul 7th, 2012 at 3:56AM

It can be either of these , depends on

1. Situation you are in
2. State of mind you are in
3. How challenging and positive you are

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Reply by devilwife Jul 7th, 2012 at 4:15AM

Situation I am in ? Part time job, full time school but graduating soon. State of mind ? I lost it... I am fine with challenges... I am positive now ? Hell no !
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Reply by dilfek2010 Jul 7th, 2012 at 4:20AM

Not by saying.. stand in front of mirror and see what your heart says to you
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