Believe ur instincts. What are you feeling? who do you want to believe.. also don't forget actions speak louder than words. :) ..goodluck!
Studies have shown that women are horrible judges of their boyfriends character. The cause is the hormone Oxytocin. When a woman falls in love, the hormone goes straight to the "attachment" center of the brain, makes her fall in love, and turns off her judgement. It is released during love making by both the male and female body. In the male body, the absorption of oxytocin is blocked by the testosterone and the oxytocin becomes a sedative. So while the woman is falling in love, the man is falling asleep. <br />
In the study, they found that the woman's friends were accurate about the degree of commitment the man had for the relationship. When the man was a pla<x>yer, the woman was always clueless. <br />
Believe your friends.
Well what do you know about his romantic past?
Where there's smoke, there's a pla<x>yer. Your friends aren't likely to say it unless there's something to it. I would have to meet your friends to know whether they are trustworthy. Same with your boyfriend. :)
About smoke, I was just playing around with the expression--where's there's smoke, there's fire.
if your gut is telling you something is wrong and you feel he is being insincere then you are probably right
ok then don't believe he is a player until there is solid proof :D
Usually your friends are trying to look out for you.