Is my fiancé controlling?
My fiance is 40, im 23 and he has 2 teenage boys and I have a 7 yr old. he is starting to be controlling of what I spend money on. My fiancé got a better job and now makes enough to support our family on his income alone. So we decide that I would not work anymore and I would stay at home with the kids. Its been great so far and I love it! but lately I feel like he is controlling every aspect about money. if I want to buy something I have to get the ok from him to buy it. he organizes all the bills and pays them all on time so he knows our budget. I have talked to him about this and he just calls me silly and never actually will talk to me about it. then if I keep trying to talk to him about it he just gets angry. If he wants to buy something he does talk to me about it before he buys it. if he wants to buy something and I don't , he buys it anyways. But if I want to buy something that he doesn't, then I am not allowed to.