Is my happiness worth all the devastation i might cause to others if i left my husband?
13 Answers to "Is my happiness worth all the devastation i might cause to others if i left my husband?"
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ask the others
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Everyone deserves to be happy. So if you know where your happiness lies just go with it. Regarding the others, they will either somehow get along with it or will understand with time. GOOD LUCK!!
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Leave , they are probably not that bothered, good riddance.
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I ask myself that question every day....good luck!
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yep most likely,, but don't forget to take ur kids when u vamoose,,, :)
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People can get over the most devastating things. I think it's more devastating to live a lie for the rest of you life.
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You're not a real woman.
Real women don't care how devastating they are to anyone
just as long as they end up happy!!
Survey sez - Sure, go for it!!Like (1)
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you deserve to be happy. no one else can make you happy but you. if leaving your husband is going to make you happy, then do it. if these others really & truly love you, in time they will come to accept it & get over it.
but if you are leaving your husband, i hope its because you are not in love with him any more. if you are still in love but the 2 of you have alot of conflicts, maybe try some marriage counseling, before you walk away.Like (1)
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Totally worth it. Why be miserable the rest of your life just to please others? You may cause some devastation at first but in the long run it will probably be better for everyone.
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Yes, its worth it.
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Did this happen to you too?
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Im living it as we speak. Its hard because my sons 12, and very sad about our pending divorce
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lol at your age screw what others think, hell your kids are prolly grown and u aint getting any younger
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Sounds like you want to live miserable so that a few people think your life is peachy keen
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by ErieHandyMan Jul 29th, 2012 at 5:16PM
If you are miserable, they have to accept your choice. It won't be devastation, but it is to your happiness if you stay. The only way you truly lose in the scenario is if you fail to achieve happiness.
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