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Is my husband cheating at work & on myspace?

A yr ago my mother waqlked in on my husband & their secretary in the front office they said nothing was going on then my parents secretary yelled sexual harassment my husband worked for my parents he denies it then I came across a myspace he had for 3 yrs and didn't tell me he had a picture of himself on their and was talking to other women after that 3 more women at work made accusations of him saying sexual remarks he then took his laptop out of our house never to be seen again when he got accused of sexual harassment the first time he did not tell me my mom did 2 months later this is the order of events before any of this I thought what a wonderful husband I have I still have nebver got the truth except he says he is innnocent we have been married 4 yrs he cheated on his ex wife is he repeating this pattern why not mention you have a myspace our teenage daughters had one and he acted as if he didn't even know how to log on.........What to believe or do
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CherrySissy
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Yes, he is cheating. A relationship is all about communication. If he needs a secret MySpace page to communicate his real feelings to other women ... that's cheating. In fact, it is way more important than anything he does physically. Good luck to you.
Posted 9 months ago

Other 11 Answers to Is my husband cheating at work & on myspace?


freeflowing
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
follow your women instinct. it usually never lies
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unicorn59
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Okay...take your head out of the sand and face the facts....

You don't really need any of us to tell you what those facts are, now do you?
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fukkboii
Posted Jan 26th, 2009 at 3:09PM
IF U HAVE TO ASK U ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER. THE REAL QUESTION IS ARE U PREPARED TO DO WHAT U HAVE TO? GOOD LUCK.
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rusted
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Cheating?
I don't know. It does sound like he has honesty and respect issues. Both of you need to put some work into your relationship if you want it to work.
Good luck.
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remember32
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
2 b honest babe it doesn't sound good!i don't think its cheating and i really don't want 2 cause any offence 2 u hun but i think he is being more slimy than anythin!u seem a nice person who has good parents!unfortunately not everythin is rosy!he's hiding something babes and i so hope u get 2 the bottom of it!big hugs!thinkin of u!u deserve honesty!!xxxx
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Loveisallaround
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Yes he is cheating. Anytime a person is spending time talking or messaging to people other then their spouses in a sexual way it is a kind of betrayal. Even if he never acts on it. I believe he has though.

As to why he didn't mention it to his children. Even if he was acting in a gentlemanly way, there are some things you would not want your children to know about you. Don't you have something you would talk to an internet friend about, but would cringe at the thought of your children finding out.

In my opinion he is cheating and it needs to be confronted, possibly with a marriage counselor if you want to keep your marriage. Especially since he took the laptop away and did some of this stuff in your parents work place. What is the man thinking? He had to know he would be get caught.
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AlDente
Posted Jan 26th, 2009 at 3:10PM
And this guy works for YOUR family? And women are talking sexual harassment against YOUR family's business. Am I getting this right?
I am so sorry for you but if I am getting some of the details correct then you are in prime position to make this guys life a hellstorm.
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void00
Posted Jan 26th, 2009 at 3:10PM
I've said it before...once a cheater always a cheater. How many women have accused him of sexual harrassment now? The odd one might just be malicious, but I'm beginning to sense a pattern.
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levin60kitty
Posted Jan 26th, 2009 at 3:10PM
He sounds like a cheater. He acts like a cheater. He looks like a cheater. I don't know. Maybe he is a cheater. As I tell everyone, you deserve happiness. If he is a jerk, then leave him, take whatever the courts will give you and find another who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Good luck.
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Cannondale
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Do you know how to puncuate? Yes, he is cheating.
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sothisisme
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
cheater! plain and simple.. plus if all these women at work are saying this then theres got to be some truth.. either your husband has issues with controling his mouth or maybe a sexual relationship gone bad/.... plus when you are married talking to other women in a flirt type of way is cheating if you ask me
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