My wife and i use the Term partner all the time now that i am a Full Time Cross Dresser.
Partner and Lover are huge terms of the Gay Community. The lover irritates me though , even though I still want one lol
i dont think partner has a gender
Both, although to me it tends to imply that you are a homosexual couple.
partner is female....member is male....
Partneress is female.
Its either... mines defo male tho