He was my best friend and we dated for 4 years. He truely was the one who saw me grow as a person. I love him more than I can say. The day before he broke up with me, everything was okay. We had been arguing a bit more. Talking about marriage was stressing him out. He worries A LOT because of his OCD and I tried to understand I sis not make it as easy as I should have. It has been 2 months with no contact. At first I tried calling him and texting him but with no results. He sent me 3 packages by post with total 8 books and a note saying Hey Sweety I wanted you to have these books. Lots of Love XOXO. I wrote a thank you note but nothing. I cannot imagine my life without him. I wonder if this has got something to do with his OCD pills. He still said I love you when he broke up. I just want him back!!! Is there any chance? What should I do? [e
hootchie hootchie 22-25, F 5 Answers Aug 19, 2012 in Broken Hearts & Betrayal

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Ever Consider Praying?

Got Jesus?

Jeremiah 32:27 My personal friend has on her status and it reads

27 Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh: is there any thing too hard for me?

in another place He declares that What is impossible with man it is possible with God.

Got Jesus?

Would you like to?

Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

11 For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.

As for your friend possible helpmeet as the bible puts it...

Matthew6:33 says it best;

33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

First get right with God perhaps get saved and then God will do what you request of bringing a loved one back in your arms.

If you have any questions message me or whiteboard me.

God bless you to take that step and that he remove all that keeps you from doing so In Jesus name I thank the Father Amen

Ever heard of the saying "Absence makes the heart go fonder" ???

If you smother someone your very own actions pushes them further away.

Let them breathe

But honestly Pray for God's guidance Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

7 Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.

I feel sooooooooooo bad for you I pray with you, and until you agree with me it is not with you.

Father God who is in heaven who in all things you can set things straight showw thineself and manifest yourself to hootchie, let her realize how much she needs of you and that you are real give her peace in her heart as I pray that you make the loved one return to atleast talk about relationship, if it is your will join them in union as man and wife take away the barriers that prevent this.

Let hootchie be understanding and respectful of individuals needs and not spam him in every way possible give her patience and peace in her heart that you will hearken to my prayer to You Father for ALL things are possible with you, For nothing is impossible with You, I love you and I Thank You in Jesus name do I pray Amen

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I am praying daily. Thanks :)

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Have you got right with the Lord?
2 Chronicles 7:14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
15 Now mine eyes shall be open, and mine ears attent unto the prayer that is made in this place.
16 For now have I chosen and sanctified this house, that my name may be there for ever: and mine eyes and mine heart shall be there perpetually.
I want you to notice it is condotional upon surrender, there are 5 conditions that must be met before God will do.
Another thing repetitive prayer for same thing cancels prayer
i.e. Matthew 6:7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.
repetition means you didnt believe He would do it the first time it shows doubt!
Hebrews 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.

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go see him in person. If he wont reply to text or emails just show up at his house and don't leave until you get what you need to say out.

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If he has OCD he probably has other stuff too. He probably does love you, you just scared him a bit or something. Write him an email saying you love him and you're sure he loves you and YOU UNDERSTAND that he needs a little "break" and you'll be waiting for him when he feels he can come back! Its very important for him to understand that you want to support him, you are not rushing him and you'll be there waiting for him. Tell him this stuff.....and wait---

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Im in the exact same predicament and don't know what to do however the above advice sounds good.. its just finding the courage to do it

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So what do you say we do? Ask them to meet up somewhere??
Best of luck to you, I hope it works out for you. How long has it been since you guys broke up?

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Maybe You should Talk To Him In Person. Let Him Know How You Feel Then,Than Maybe It Would Be Easier For Both Of You. Some People Hate To Discuss Relationship Stuff Over The Phone Or Txt Msges,Some Prefer In Person....Like Me

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Me too. But he won't even reply to my emails. Makes me wonder if he doesn't want to.

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Send Him A Email Asking If You Guys Can Meet Up For Lunch Like Old Buddies. I Sure He Want To.

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Okay I guess I can try that :-/

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