Yes that's called obsession.
Psychological Reactance”: People don’t like to be told they can’t have or can’t do something. It’s related to not wanting to be controlled by others, especially if the situation feels unfair or arbitrary. The “reactance” is both emotional and behavioral
delusional desire... I made that up, but that's what they should call it.
To yearn or covet?
No, envy is wanting something someone else has, material or otherwise. You can have your neighbor's spouse, it just might cause problems.
Hey, let's have a little contest and whoever can spout out the answer that sounds right but actually has no relevance to the question wins. Sound good?
What "can't" you have?