Also you can try ineedescort.net
Transsexual Social Community in London, UK
GenderFest.com is a free transgender social network
I highly recommend The Transgender Social Environment.
urnotalone.com has been around forever
There are many sites available!
You may have luck,but no promises!....Good luck!!
It depends on what you're looking for exactly, there are a few. Are you crossdresser? transsexual? androgynous? You could check out Laura's Playground, it's a forum with sections for a few of those. And good luck.