the blame game is common in our society; we blame others, we're in denial about our own lives; we haven't accepted or acknowledged the truth about something. I used to blame others for what they did to me or said to me; now I don't; I accept that people are people, but how I responded to it, is on me. I assume the responsibility which is mine to own.
Narcissist. It's a personality disorder caused, from my view, by overly coddling a child. I was married to one.
Obamaism . Because It's always the Conservatives Fault.
By asking Why?, one could assume you are one of those someones.
Victim. Because it gets you a shot for a talk-show gig.